Hi, i was wondering if i could get some advice?
I have never been the most confident person at all, but i feel like now it is negatively affecting my life, including my mood and socialising with others. I am in my first year of university and i never feel good enough to be where i am. I compare myself to others all the time. I feel so negative about myself. I try and care about my appearance because i wear makeup every day and wear nice outfits but every day on the inside i hate myself. I don't mind how i look really, but i hate how i am so unconfident and i hate my personality and mindset. I am a really nice person but i get scared to talk to people because i think they won't like me or something. I don't know, but i really don't like myself these days and i don't know what to do about it. I get the train to university every day, so i do feel a bit isolated from the uni community. However, i had stayed in a flat for a short while this year and it didn't work out (aka, i was a wimp and left) because 1. i was on accutane and got some physical side effects like muscle pains that really affected me & 2. (the real reason which i havent told anyone) i wasnt all that sociable with my flatmates and i would isolate myself from them. i would feel anxious sometimes living there for no reason and so i thought i would start staying at home instead and travelling every day. However, i now wish i had kept staying there even though it was the hardest thing to do because it is not the same at all. I feel like i am not the person i want to be at all. I will try and make sure i live in a flat next year, but i feel like i will still feel the same way about myself (very unconfident, shy, and hating myself.) Please does anyone have any advice? I know this sounds like a pity party, but i genuinely need some help. Thank you x
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- 03-02-2017 07:55
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- 07-02-2017 17:09