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    So I ended up really liking this girl but I don't know what to do. As much as I'd want something to happen between us I'm scared of ruining the friendship. I try my best to just act or talk normal around her but I just know in my head that I really do like this girl more than a friend.

    I've never really tried to flirt with her because I don't want to give the hint as I am quite scared/ worried. I also don't really want to make things awkward between us. I really enjoy being with her and talking to her everyday. Simply just talking to her already makes my day lol A friend has said I sound like I'm deep into it already lol

    Kind of unsure whether I should just confess it or just keep hiding it until it goes away?
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    I sometimes feel like that and I think it's due to getting too attached to the girl before you've asked her out. If you want something, then you should try to get it.

    Think of it like this..

    You ask her out, she says no, then you still stay friends.
    You ask her out she says no, you don't stay friends but that's fine because you're not after a friendship.
    You ask her out and she says yes!!

    Worst case is you'll lose a friend, but you can make more friends

    Flirt! You never know if she feels like you, waiting for the other person to make the first move.
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