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    I've been friends with this guy for a long while now, we have classes together, have nicknames and tease each other a lot, but it's all just for fun, and genuinely we always have a smile on our face when we see each other.

    however recently all he's talking about is sex. I don't know if this was recent or he's always been doing it and I hadn't notice, but it's really made me feel that he's been using me just for it....... he constantly asks when my birthday is even though it's ages away, and today he's asked what happens if I was 16 and pregnant, how many kids do I want, and his friends also asked 'if I would have sex with him'

    do you think he's using me? or not? I honestly thought he wasn't one of 'those guys', because he doesn't seem like the type from what I know of. It's weird to think this because we have a strong bond.....
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    So, you're asking if a guy with whom you never had sex is using you for sex? Is that's what's happening?

    Wow.
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    If you've not been having sex then no he's not using you currently. Maybe he's interested and it's his way of trying to be flirty, maybe he's just asking questions innocently as a joke.
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    how would we know?
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    Tbh nowadays that's all they want to know and talk about.. just don't get your hopes up about anything
 
 
 
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