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    Hey a few days ago I asked this girl that I've been speaking with for a while if she wants to meet up for a coffee some time and she took a few hours to reply but she said yes and apologised for taking ages to reply cause she was napping. I asked her what days she was free and she said she wouldn't be able to make it this week but she would have free time next week so today I asked her if she knows when she'll be free and it's been a few hours she's come online a few times since then but hasn't read the message. Is she just not interested?
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    she's probably just busy if she wasn't interested she wouldn't say she was free next week
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    Relax and dont overthink
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    When I have bad days I usually reply really late so I think she might have some issues to solve atm.

    There's nothing wrong with you. She'll certainly message you soon.
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    Just be patient. She hasn't said no so is probably jus busy or hasn't realised you messaged.
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    While it's not complete rejection it's far from a good sign. Unless you are enormously keen I would leave the ball in her court to see if she actually wants to make a date happen.
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    You need to give it time. She probably is just busy right now. I know it's natural to be concerned but she hasn't said no yet, so it really is down to her to pursue you and give you a time and date on when to meet up.
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    She's just trying to hide how hopelessly in love with you she is, she's probably just playing hard to get pal.
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    We've all been there, mate. Or at least all us who spend their saturday nights on the student room 😂😂😂😂
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    Still waiting on a response.. not sure if I should say something or what lol
 
 
 
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