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    -THat im gay
    -The extent of my MH (stuff like that doesnt exist apparently)
    -That ive been seeing a counsellor
    -THat im on here or that i speak to people online (i.e have online friends), they would probably have a heart attack if they knew some of my favourite ppl online were in their late twenties :rofl:
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    They don't know that I'm bisexual...

    Or that I'm an atheist and I'm failing maths :creep:
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Which one are you? Are you planning on coming out?
    I'm a girl and I'm bi. Tbh I'm equally attarcted to women as I am to men. No I'm not planning to come out, haha. Even so, I don't think I'll be planning to be in a relationship anytime soon haha. Some of my friends already know, and they asked me once because they found it strange that the famous women I found very attractive were all lesbians :lol: Odd that they spotted that but meh. I'm not very opne about tbh.
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Lol similar answers

    Would you ever tell your parents? What would happen if they found out?
    I would never tell them and if I did my Mum would be so pissed.
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    (Original post by Escape...)
    I travelled solo to Lisbon
    Nice!

    I've been to quite a few places solo, and once didn't even tell them I went over a weekend.

    I said I was going down to London.

    There's a stigma going solo which needn't be the case.
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    That I'm ace
    That I'm getting worse again due to school and considered dropping out
    That I'm going to see Hamilton next June
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    (Original post by Craghyrax)
    Nothing I'd want TSR to know
    Anon function :mmm:
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    that i find girls that look masculine supa attractive,

    or that i have a potty mouth.
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    That I have a boyfriend and he's not the race or religion they'd like
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    I think my daddy knows everything about me. :lol: Christ, he even knew I was asexual before I realised it myself, awkward.

    Well, perhaps one thing. I don't think he knows how seriously ill I am mentally. Sure, he knows I am ill, and he's fantastic support, my best support actually, but I don't think he gets that I am always going to be this ill. Perhaps he does know deep down, but doesn't want to admit it to me, because that might make it seem like he is giving up on his child.
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    I did drugs.
    I lied to them about my health several times (said everything was okay when I was near suicidal).
    I assume (and pray and hope) they didn't know I watched porn regularly.
    I don't plan on having kids - ever.

    I think that's it. They know most of what I've done in my life.
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Anon function :mmm:
    Anon just isn't the same when you're a mod :p:
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    (Original post by Craghyrax)
    Anon just isn't the same when you're a mod :p:
    Wait. Mods can see who's behind anon? Even for the bants?

    Breach on student confidentiality!
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    (Original post by Cherub012)
    Wait. Mods can see who's behind anon? Even for the bants?

    Breach on student confidentiality!
    No, only when it's abused.
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    (Original post by Craghyrax)
    No, only when it's abused.
    Ok. I trust you. :ninja:
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    (Original post by Cherub012)
    Ok. I trust you. :ninja:
    I've never modded areas that have anon enabled, so I'm irrelevant lol. But yeh, do trust the team. We work with really strict procedures and a lot of accountability
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Where?
    on my arm
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    (Original post by Sammylou40)
    I may sorry
    I hope you've had someone to support you
    Why couldn't you tell your parents though?
    If that happened and I didn't know I'd be truly gutted that they didn't tell me if I found out
    Because the person who raped me is my mums nephew aka my cousin (my mums brothers son)
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    (Original post by Airmed)
    I think my daddy knows everything about me. :lol: Christ, he even knew I was asexual before I realised it myself, awkward.

    Well, perhaps one thing. I don't think he knows how seriously ill I am mentally. Sure, he knows I am ill, and he's fantastic support, my best support actually, but I don't think he gets that I am always going to be this ill. Perhaps he does know deep down, but doesn't want to admit it to me, because that might make it seem like he is giving up on his child.
    I know what the term 'asexual' means... But like i'm struggling to knkw what it MEANS if you follow. Like, do you just have no sexual desire?
    I remember you saying you have an ex boyfriend etc so hence why i'm confused..

    - If you don't mind me asking that. You don't have to answer


    Hope you get over your MH issues. You're doing all you can from what i've seen. I'm tempted to be like 'you'll get over it, stop being pessimistic etc' however, those are empty words and ultimately they're your demons.
    Hopefully it'll improve over time
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Because the person who raped me is my mums nephew aka my cousin (my mums brothers son)
    That's rough.

    I would tell your parents. This is your mums issue re telling your uncle.

    Your cousin should face up to his actions, your family will hardly send him to jail. He must face the shame and pay the consequences for his deplorable actions.

    It isn't your fault, you can't take the burden.
 
 
 
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