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    Ive known these two guys from seperate circles, and one of them I would class as a close friend as we told each other a lot, then after uni and now work we dont talk as much, we work in different jobs, I havent really heard from him much, as he says he's busy, but busy is bs, really as if you want to hang out with someone you will. I havent heard from him in a while, the last time he rang me was for money which upset me a little.

    Now my other friend its the same we would hang out a lot but now he doesnt, if I message him he's says he's busy. This has gone on for a while now. It is a bit sad, now he only contacted me to borrow some items, which was a bit selfish.

    What can you do ?
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    Ive known these two guys from seperate circles, and one of them I would class as a close friend as we told each other a lot, then after uni and now work we dont talk as much, we work in different jobs, I havent really heard from him much, as he says he's busy, but busy is bs, really as if you want to hang out with someone you will. I havent heard from him in a while, the last time he rang me was for money which upset me a little.

    Now my other friend its the same we would hang out a lot but now he doesnt, if I message him he's says he's busy. This has gone on for a while now. It is a bit sad, now he only contacted me to borrow some items, which was a bit selfish.

    What can you do ?
    I wouldn't call them friends, they only contact you when they want something, not the sort of people you need in your life.
 
 
 
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