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Virgin (20f) talking to young professional (24m) from Tinder, good/bad idea? Watch

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    Hi everyone,

    I'm 20 years and a virgin. I've had plenty of times to lose it and I've either been too scared or just grossed out at drunk guys. Anyway me and my friend downloaded Tinder and after a day I matched with someone who seemed nice. Moved things over to Snapchat and he messages a LOT. I will sometimes take a few hours to open his snaps and once I begin to type again he's online. Sends loads of stuff. A bit clingy to be honest and not the bestest looking but he seems very nice, has a degree and a decent job so I know he's not a waster. I'm just wondering if a 24 year old is maybe too old for someone like me with absolutely noooo experience? (I obviously know 24 isn't old! but in this context). And is this a bad sign that he's already quite clingy?!

    TL;DR: What would you honestly think of a girl being 20 and still a virgin, despite being decent looking and at uni etc?
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    Nothing wrong with being a virgin at 20. Don't see how being "decent looking" and being a uni student has anything to do with it, there are lots of other people in the same boat as you.

    Yes it's a bad sign he might be too clingy.

    With the snapchat thing though, at least with me, when somebody is typing a message it comes up on my phone and I get a notification even before you've sent the message. That might explain why he's online.

    I don't get what you mean about him being too old in this context..? Can you elaborate

    Don't worry about being a virgin.

    I'll take the win. 32 going on 33. Proud virgin. Have a great job and friends. Regarded as handsome and friendly. Always believed in waiting for the 1/marriage. Now realise that's not possible in modern day society, but happy to stay celibate than betray what I believe in. Tinder is about the worst place to look for a relationship - wouldn't touch it. Hold on in there. PM if you feel like discussing...would be eager to talk.

    You find him clingy and not good looking.. everything else is irrelevant. Stop wasting his time.
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