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    I've put down a deposit for a holiday with my friends to go to Zante in July. It's a party island which is probably why he doesn't want me to go, but he has nothing to worry about. He went to Turkey with his friends last year and I didn't throw a fit.

    I don't know if I'm being unreasonable? He pointed out that the friends I'm going with are all single, but does that really matter? If I wanted to cheat, I wouldn't wait until I was out of the country to do it. I know it's bothering him a lot because he brings it up all the time. Should I just cancel it?
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    Don't let him stop you from going, he has no right.
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    No **** him, hypocrites do my head in!
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    Wait until you're at Zante then post a naked picture of yourself with a guy you just met, guaranteed your house will get burned down, claim the compensation and you're sorted for life.
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    Don't cancel it! He went on a trip with his friends last year what's the difference?

    And you're right if you were going to cheat you'd just do it here

    The issue is how much he trusts you, not you going away with your friends...his issue not yours


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    HMMMMMMMM maybe he doesn't want you to go on holiday because he done some things in turkey which he fears you will do too if you get what i mean
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    This is his problem, not yours. He needs to find a way to be ok with it - he can't stop you going on a holiday.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I've put down a deposit for a holiday with my friends to go to Zante in July. It's a party island which is probably why he doesn't want me to go, but he has nothing to worry about. He went to Turkey with his friends last year and I didn't throw a fit.

    I don't know if I'm being unreasonable? He pointed out that the friends I'm going with are all single, but does that really matter? If I wanted to cheat, I wouldn't wait until I was out of the country to do it. I know it's bothering him a lot because he brings it up all the time. Should I just cancel it?
    He's being unreasonable, not you. It can't be one rule for him and another for you, that's not a good foundation to build a relationship on! At the end of the day he either trusts you or he doesn't, and if the former, then there's absolutely no reason he shouldn't want you to go.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I've put down a deposit for a holiday with my friends to go to Zante in July. It's a party island which is probably why he doesn't want me to go, but he has nothing to worry about. He went to Turkey with his friends last year and I didn't throw a fit.

    I don't know if I'm being unreasonable? He pointed out that the friends I'm going with are all single, but does that really matter? If I wanted to cheat, I wouldn't wait until I was out of the country to do it. I know it's bothering him a lot because he brings it up all the time. Should I just cancel it?
    Well considering he went on a holiday, he has absolutely no right to stop you. He sounds very controlling and possessive to be honest. Stand your ground, put your foot down and tell him you are going whether he likes it or not.
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    Okay, i'll still go. I saw on his laptop that he had searched on Google "what is there to do in Zante"
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    Wait until you're at Zante then post a naked picture of yourself with a guy you just met, guaranteed your house will get burned down, claim the compensation and you're sorted for life.
    Haha he'll kill me
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    Loool who needs a boyfriend?
    Smh

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    He seems unreasonable to me. Your friends will probably be friends long after any relationship with him.
 
 
 
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