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    OK. So I've been with my boyfriend about 18 months. I'm 19, he's 24.
    We met at work and things went pretty quick - I moved in with him after about 7 months of spending most of my time there (it wasn't out of choice).
    I stayed there for about 9 months before moving out for various reasons, but we don't see much of each other.

    I'm really not into it anymore, and haven't been for a few weeks. We never argue (mainly because if I moan, he'll just brush it off - if he moans, he gets it out of his system straight away so brushes off any response!)... as far as he knows, we're all fine (I don't know how he hasn't got any of my hints?!?!)

    How do I stop him and go "you know how we've been totally fine, and not argued... well this isn't going how I want it to..."?!

    HELP PLEASE!
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    Him not arguing with you is a good thing surely? The signs of sensible man...

    You just need to be up front then. If you're not interested in the relationship anymore you do need to tell him that to his face.
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    OK. So I've been with my boyfriend about 18 months. I'm 19, he's 24.
    We met at work and things went pretty quick - I moved in with him after about 7 months of spending most of my time there (it wasn't out of choice).
    I stayed there for about 9 months before moving out for various reasons, but we don't see much of each other.

    I'm really not into it anymore, and haven't been for a few weeks. We never argue (mainly because if I moan, he'll just brush it off - if he moans, he gets it out of his system straight away so brushes off any response!)... as far as he knows, we're all fine (I don't know how he hasn't got any of my hints?!?!)

    How do I stop him and go "you know how we've been totally fine, and not argued... well this isn't going how I want it to..."?!

    HELP PLEASE!
    what exactly do you want
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    Him not arguing with you is a good thing surely? The signs of sensible man...

    You just need to be up front then. If you're not interested in the relationship anymore you do need to tell him that to his face.
    I understand I need to speak to him about it, and I understand it needs to be face to face... I just don't know how to best approach it?

    At mine? At his? Do I say "we need to have a chat, come round" or do I wait until he's here before I drop the bombshell? I just don't know how best to do it
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    If you have the maturity level of a 12 year old.
 
 
 
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