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    I literally crush on random people that catch my eye. No joke I think I actually freak them out. e.g. I catch a train every morning and back to school with my friends and I saw this guy and he caught my attention immediatly. However, he has been on my train for years and I have never noticed him before. Everytime I'm on the train and I'm not talking to my friends I would just be observing this person. I don't know if its crushing but I notice things different about them, the way they talk and how they act and stuff. This lasts about a month and then I just don't care about that person anymore.Is there something wrong with me?
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    (Original post by 20.da)
    I literally crush on random people that catch my eye. No joke I think I actually freak them out. e.g. I catch a train every morning and back to school with my friends and I saw this guy and he caught my attention immediatly. However, he has been on my train for years and I have never noticed him before. Everytime I'm on the train and I'm not talking to my friends I would just be observing this person. I don't know if its crushing but I notice things different about them, the way they talk and how they act and stuff. This lasts about a month and then I just don't care about that person anymore.Is there something wrong with me?
    I can kind of relate-ish sort of. Perhaps you are lonely or haven't had a proper relationship before? That isn't a bad thing, but can just make you want relationships or attach yourself to others easily. This can be the case if you had a bad relationship as well or stress about life and other things at times and use it as an escape. A bit like Walter Mitty.
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    (Original post by 20.da)
    I literally crush on random people that catch my eye. No joke I think I actually freak them out. e.g. I catch a train every morning and back to school with my friends and I saw this guy and he caught my attention immediatly. However, he has been on my train for years and I have never noticed him before. Everytime I'm on the train and I'm not talking to my friends I would just be observing this person. I don't know if its crushing but I notice things different about them, the way they talk and how they act and stuff. This lasts about a month and then I just don't care about that person anymore.Is there something wrong with me?
    I do that too 😳 I have random short term crushes but I tell myself it's just a small crush hahaha. I don't like thinking about it too much. But like you, I'm observant person and I notice details about people but I don't dwell on it too much. I have a good memory usually but I don't want people to think I'm too eager or "obsessed" with them.
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    I can kind of relate-ish sort of. Perhaps you are lonely or haven't had a proper relationship before? That isn't a bad thing, but can just make you want relationships or attach yourself to others easily. This can be the case if you had a bad relationship as well or stress about life and other things at times and use it as an escape. A bit like Walter Mitty.
    Yeah I haven't been in a relationship before and to be honest first three years of secondary school I thought there was something wrong with me cause other girls were getting in relationships and stuff... Now i don't care as much cause my GCSEs are stressing me out anyways
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    (Original post by k_popper)
    I do that too 😳 I have random short term crushes but I tell myself it's just a small crush hahaha. I don't like thinking about it too much. But like you, I'm observant person and I notice details about people but I don't dwell on it too much. I have a good memory usually but I don't want people to think I'm too eager or "obsessed" with them.
    hahaha this is so accurate. I didn't even know if I should title it as a crush because I honestly don't think it is.
 
 
 
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