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    I don't think my boyfreind finds me attractive anymore. for example every time I try to kiss him he would kinda just step back and make an excuse to leave the room and things get painfully awkward. if it was once i wouldn't care but this has happened so many times and i even did it once to deliberately test.

    it's even like this when I try to hug him , I can tell he doesn't want to hug me but does anyway and gives me a Freindly hug. we haven't had sex in like 3 months. so I'm starting to get seriously worried. do you think he just doesn't find me attractive anymore and just finds me disgusting to look at? or do you think he is cheating on me?we're both 22 and have been together for 2 years. I can tell you he wasn't like this in the beginning of the relationship. and is this normal for guys?
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    You will need to talk to him about this and clear things up. And no, it's not normal.
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    It's cliche, it doesn't give you an answer straight away, but it's the only advice to give. TALK TO HIM.

    You can jump to conclusions, people on here will jump to conclusions, but the truth could be completely different. Could he be cheating? There's a chance. Could he have lost interest in you? There's a chance. But he could also be having a rough time with his family or something, and he may just be one of those people that bottle things like that up. The point is that you won't know what it is unless you talk to him.
 
 
 
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