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    Hi.

    So I have this close friend of mine, lets refer to him as 'D'.
    I've known him for a rough 6 years now, and he is one of my closest friends.
    He has a series of confirmed mental illnesses, nothing too serious, but still would have an impact on his everyday life.

    He did pretty badly throughout his school years, and failed most of his GCSEs, which meant he had to go to an equally bad college, separating himself from his current group of friends which he already worked hard to gain. So, D has been doing a bit better in his studies recently, but after recent relationship issues, I fear that his mental health and motivation have taken a toll for the worse.

    He doesn't feel like going to college, and he hates it. He has 'friends', but D says that they talk about him behind his back. His family is also a big factor in his lack of motivation, his mother is bipolar and his little brother is autistic, and causes him stress on a daily basis.

    He doesn't even want to resit his English and Maths to get back into our Sixth form.

    What should I do to help him get back on track?
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    this worked for my friend. I put her in different sports clubs and we went to the gym together and we workout out and played together. It made her happier and it got her back on track to focus. Sports are scientifically proven to relieve mental stress and it releases endorphins so thats what i did.
    If he doesnt like sports you should both do something he really enjoys together.
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    (Original post by 20.da)
    this worked for my friend. I put her in different sports clubs and we went to the gym together and we workout out and played together. It made her happier and it got her back on track to focus. Sports are scientifically proven to relieve mental stress and it releases endorphins so thats what i did.
    If he doesnt like sports you should both do something he really enjoys together.
    Thanks for the suggestion!

    He likes sport to an extent, but he'd much rather sit inside and play games(something we are both guilty of aha).

    We do play games together, although recently less frequently.
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    I wish i had friends like you ...
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    I wish i had friends like you ...
    Aww!

    PM me if you want someone to talk to
 
 
 
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