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    Hi all.

    I've been in a relationship now for a year and 2 months.
    We live a distance away from each other (We both live on the South West Coast)
    I've stayed at his house once.
    All the rest of the other times we have been using a local hotel (at my expense) - He's paid for a few meals etc but then it's now to (We'll go halves).
    He's bought me Christmas presents and birthday presents etc.

    But am i being used as i'm financially stable and he is not? :/

    I'm just getting a bit cheesed off tbh it's always a one way street with me going to him he's NOT once come to me.

    He constantly says he will ask his mum if i can stay but never does.

    Please Help!
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    It sounds like it's awkward for him to have you stay over. I'm guessing his parents made a decision about something and rather than sound like a child and say "My mum said you cant come." He's just being really flaky about it. If you feel like you are investing too much, the answer is easy. Just invest less and see if he invests more in you. Doesn't have to be monetary either. Just have him put in effort, set up dates, come to you, pick u up, take you out. How much a guy chases you is the only way to guage his true interest.
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    It sounds like it's awkward for him to have you stay over. I'm guessing his parents made a decision about something and rather than sound like a child and say "My mum said you cant come." He's just being really flaky about it. If you feel like you are investing too much, the answer is easy. Just invest less and see if he invests more in you. Doesn't have to be monetary either. Just have him put in effort, set up dates, come to you, pick u up, take you out. How much a guy chases you is the only way to guage his true interest.
    *******s.
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    The strange thing is i used to speak to his mum all the time over Facebook and she'd respond but now she doesn't even bother she passes the message on to him which he passes on to me.
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