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    and i feel so stupid. Like I KNOW I can so much better so why did I continue TO BEG HIM to stay with me until the very last moment????? AM I STUPID? WHY AM I THAT INSECURE AND NEEDY???
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    Get a haircut and re-evaluate.
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    and i feel so stupid. Like I KNOW I can so much better so why did I continue TO BEG HIM to stay with me until the very last moment????? AM I STUPID? WHY AM I THAT INSECURE AND NEEDY???
    Low self esteem, low confidence. Deal with that and you wont feel the need for others to validate you as much. It also makes you more attractive. Begging is not a good look.
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    and i feel so stupid. Like I KNOW I can so much better so why did I continue TO BEG HIM to stay with me until the very last moment????? AM I STUPID? WHY AM I THAT INSECURE AND NEEDY???
    It is natural to feel fear and not wanting things to change. Maybe, you didn't want him but just the feeling of being in a relationship was satisfying for you and made you 'beg' even though you know you can do better.
 
 
 
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