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    Hi all.

    I've been in a relationship now for a year and 2 months.
    We live a distance away from each other (We both live on the South West Coast)
    I've stayed at his house once.
    All the rest of the other times we have been using a local hotel (at my expense) - He's paid for a few meals etc but then it's now to (We'll go halves).
    He's bought me Christmas presents and birthday presents etc.

    But am i being used as i'm financially stable and he is not? :/

    I'm just getting a bit cheesed off tbh it's always a one way street with me going to him he's NOT once come to me.

    He constantly says he will ask his mum if i can stay but never does.

    Please Help!
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    Tell him exactly what bothers you, he's not putting as much effort into this relationship as you expect him to.

    And if he's not financially stable, he can't afford to pay for certain stuff so it's not much of a choice.
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    True.

    Thanks.
 
 
 
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