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    Its probably a temporary phase, but I have spoke to girls etc. But now I really cant be asked getting into a relationship and flirting with a girl, getting her number and so on. Before it was fun but now I cant be bothered.

    I used to a think finding a girl who would be my special person who I could always talk to and be open with.

    But before I would make effort for the girl and wait untill she would reciprocate, but now I feel like the girl would need to come to me first, because like I said I cba making effort.

    Has anyone else felt like this
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    Sometimes I just feel like moving to Mexico, let my moustache grow and change my name to Juanita.




    I totally get ya OP.
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    So just... don't. What's the big deal?

    Being in a relationship when you don't want to be in one is a waste of time, money, and emotional effort. Better to just avoid the whole thing by not bothering if you cba with it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Its probably a temporary phase, but I have spoke to girls etc. But now I really cant be asked getting into a relationship and flirting with a girl, getting her number and so on. Before it was fun but now I cant be bothered.

    I used to a think finding a girl who would be my special person who I could always talk to and be open with.

    But before I would make effort for the girl and wait untill she would reciprocate, but now I feel like the girl would need to come to me first, because like I said I cba making effort.

    Has anyone else felt like this
    If you cba then its unlikely someone will ba about wanting a relationship with you.

    No problem though just be happy to be single and enjoy that.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Its probably a temporary phase, but I have spoke to girls etc. But now I really cant be asked getting into a relationship and flirting with a girl, getting her number and so on. Before it was fun but now I cant be bothered.

    I used to a think finding a girl who would be my special person who I could always talk to and be open with.

    But before I would make effort for the girl and wait untill she would reciprocate, but now I feel like the girl would need to come to me first, because like I said I cba making effort.

    Has anyone else felt like this
    I get what you mean and this is coming from a girl. I always try my best to give my all when it comes to opening up and talking to boys that I'm interested in but they are never prepared to be open with me and your bit about girls apporaching you first, most girls wont do that because they may feel like they are being annoying or weird by coming up to you first.
    Yeah, so i understanding about not being bothered to put effort in.
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    (Original post by 999tigger)
    If you cba then its unlikely someone will ba about wanting a relationship with you.

    No problem though just be happy to be single and enjoy that.
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    I get what you mean and this is coming from a girl. I always try my best to give my all when it comes to opening up and talking to boys that I'm interested in but they are never prepared to be open with me and your bit about girls apporaching you first, most girls wont do that because they may feel like they are being annoying or weird by coming up to you first.
    Yeah, so i understanding about not being bothered to put effort in.
    Im not saying I dont want a relationship, tbh I think where I work there's not many girls who are apealing. Like you say Im not going to get into a relationship for the sake of it
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    Im not saying I dont want a relationship, tbh I think where I work there's not many girls who are apealing. Like you say Im not going to get into a relationship for the sake of it

    Just get into one if you want to and dont if you do not. No need to fret.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Im not saying I dont want a relationship, tbh I think where I work there's not many girls who are apealing. Like you say Im not going to get into a relationship for the sake of it
    yeah i get that, doing that would just be a waste of time. I guess you just have to wait it out
 
 
 
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