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    (Original post by markova21)
    I'm 49 years old
    So why the **** are you on this site then?
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    (Original post by TheFarmerLad)
    So why the **** are you on this site then?
    I am on this site because my 20 year old son is a student. There are plenty of parents on here supporting their children, and plenty of mature students on here; some of them in their sixties. Can I ask you a question? Why are you such a ****ing gobshite?
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    (Original post by The Angry Roman)
    I have to agree with Cicilaw, it's almost impossible that the 11 guys you slept with all truly love you, they were just using you for free, relaxed ****ing, most likely based on your looks.
    If she wanted sex too then she wasn't being used. Where has she said that she loved the guys and they loved her? You don't have to be in love to have sex 🙄
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    (Original post by markova21)
    I am on this site because my 20 year old son is a student. There are plenty of parents on here supporting their children, and plenty of mature students on here; some of them in their sixties. Can I ask you a question? Why are you such a ****ing gobshite?
    So you feel the need the supervise him on an anonymous site? Jeez I can half understand facebook but TSR - I guess he must have some serious confidence issues. I find it amusing how a middle aged woman (presumably?) socialises with teenagers online, better yet post in sexual forums
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    (Original post by TheFarmerLad)
    So you feel the need the supervise him on an anonymous site? Jeez I can half understand facebook but TSR - I guess he must have some serious confidence issues. I find it amusing how a middle aged woman (presumably?) socialises with teenagers online, better yet post in sexual forums
    I don't supervise him. He never uses this site. Never has. Not everyone here is a teenager. Of those who are, I like being able to help them if I am able to by offering my advice and opinions on things. It seems to be appreciated by some.
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    (Original post by markova21)
    I don't supervise him. He never uses this site. Never has. Not everyone here is a teenager. Of those who are, I like being able to help them if I am able to by offering my advice and opinions on things. It seems to be appreciated by some.
    I guess that if your advice is appreciated by some then that's okay then. Having checked your account, appears you're being truthful, initially thought you were trolling
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    (Original post by TheFarmerLad)
    I guess that if your advice is appreciated by some then that's okay then. Having checked your account, appears you're being truthful, initially thought you were trolling
    Thank you. Just a single mum trying to help her son. And if I can help others too, then that makes me genuinely happy. [Sorry I swore at you ] !
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    (Original post by markova21)
    Thank you. Just a single mum trying to help her son. And if I can help others too, then that makes me genuinely happy. [Sorry I swore at you ] !
    But I thought you said your son wasn't on here? Regardless though, good for you
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    (Original post by TheFarmerLad)
    But I thought you said your son wasn't on here? Regardless though, good for you
    No he's not. I've suggested he join several times but he's having none of it. He thinks tsr's for sad losers who actually enjoy studying [his words] , whereas to him studying is just a means to an end.
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    wanna make it 12 hehe >: )
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    truly iconic, you do you
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm 17 and I've slept with 11 guys, some of them have been my exes and some just friends or one time things. my first time was at 15 and I've never thought that body count matters, but a few days ago one of my exes texted me because he found out that I was friends with his current girlfriend and he was so angry at this. Anyway he called me a whore and a **** and chuck and said how convenient for him it was that I'm such a ... honestly I laughed it off at first but that night and every night since all I've been doing is thinking about what he said and crying myself to sleep at night. I just need the honest truth? is it too many guys
    Goals.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm 17 and I've slept with 11 guys, some of them have been my exes and some just friends or one time things. my first time was at 15 and I've never thought that body count matters, but a few days ago one of my exes texted me because he found out that I was friends with his current girlfriend and he was so angry at this. Anyway he called me a whore and a **** and chuck and said how convenient for him it was that I'm such a ... honestly I laughed it off at first but that night and every night since all I've been doing is thinking about what he said and crying myself to sleep at night. I just need the honest truth? is it too many guys
    Yes.


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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    that's sexist and ********
    It's sexist if you take i literally that a key is a ****...but I think it works both ways... on the whole people girls will be a little more hesitant going into relationships with guys they know have been around and vice versa. I think it's natural because if you're someone's 40th sex partner you'll always wonder how much it means to them
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    as long as you are a consenting adult practicing safe sex you do you boo
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    You need to calm your horses......

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Based on what statistics and evidence?
    Well just from my experience of friends and people from my background, I think the average age for girls losing their virginity is 16 or 17... so taking it from there...

    I just want to know what exactly is upsetting you. Clearly you're ok with it and that's what is important, but why were you upset that he thought you were a slut? What actually made you cry? Is it that you're worried you're not like most people?
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    (Original post by Ella-keturah)
    If she wanted sex too then she wasn't being used. Where has she said that she loved the guys and they loved her? You don't have to be in love to have sex 🙄
    I guess you have a point there
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    Lol lucky you, I'm 26 and only had one.


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    (Original post by Cicilaw)
    Well just from my experience of friends and people from my background, I think the average age for girls losing their virginity is 16 or 17... so taking it from there...

    I just want to know what exactly is upsetting you. Clearly you're ok with it and that's what is important, but why were you upset that he thought you were a slut? What actually made you cry? Is it that you're worried you're not like most people?
    No I think I had a bad day and his comments made me feel bad everyone has days like that
 
 
 
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