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    I really hate my boyfriend going out clubbing. He once cheated on me in a club at the beginning of the relationship and it's now making me really paranoid about when he goes out now. I hate how uptight and anxious I feel and I don't want to feel controlling but I can't help it when he wants to go out clubbing loads. When we go out clubbing together it's fine and when he's drunk he tells me that he hates clubbing and we always come back early yet when he's with friends he comes back sometimes latest of 6am. I've spoken to him so many times about how anxious I get and that if we can compromise and he just doesn't listen. Does anybody have any advice as to what I can say to get him to understand how I feel.
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    You cant really say anything to make him udnerstand but at this point you need to fully just sit down with him, tell him how you feel and expalin taht if he wants a serious relationshil that he should stop going out to clubs without you, as essentially people go to clubs to get with other people as well as have a good time. Just remember that you deserve the best and if something is making you unhappy your boyfriend should be the one who you talk too and who should make everything better. Stay strong, and just know what you are worth. Do not take his ****!
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    Dont get people that want to hold on to a cheater
 
 
 
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