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    Me and her have been going out for a year. We used to get along really great because shes used to do whatever to keep me happy. I try to treat her nice also.

    Before christmas she started getting really distant. She was actually getting distant before that. Like I wanted to spend time with her but every day she would say she was too busy christmas shopping. Then coming back from her "shopping" with no gifts, claiming she couldn't find what she wanted, and had to go christmas shopping again.

    This continued all the way up until christmas. I asked my friends and they said "just wait till after christmas, if she is still distant? Then you know shes lying, dump her."

    Now most of the time i want to talk to her/spend time with her she claims that she is either studying or that she is spending time with her family. Like according to her shes spent the last two days at her sisters house, then when to her cousins house like that doesn't even make sense. When she told me she was going to her cousins house it was like 9pm.

    Problem is i have no real proof. And i never would have believed she would cheat on me. So what do I do?
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    Actually, I kind of avoided my ex that way when I decided I needed to break up with him. I admit it was very cowardly of me. But I got around to face the truth and did it.
    I don't know about your relationship and I don't think this is a definite proof that she's cheating on you. It could be that she just doesn't feel the same anymore. Or maybe, she doesn't realise she's ignoring you too often. Wait for her to talk about it for a bit and if the doubt starts eating you up, just ask her if she's got anything on her mind because she has been distant lately.
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    One way or another, if you can't trust her, you should break up with her - whether it's because you're too distrustful or she's not trustworthy enough.
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    If you don't want to talk to her about this..Only way to find out is if you follow her around or you could get in touch with her sister or cousin and ask if she had really been there.

    If she doesn't want to spend time with you there's obviously something wrong with your relationship. Maybe she doesn't love you anymore or she wants some time for herself, either way before you end things you should at least clarify them.
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    Look, one way or the other she cba with you. Send her a text saying you're all done and move on
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    Even if she isn't cheating, why would you stay with someone who has no time for you and is clearly making you unhappy?
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    You don't want proof. Trust your instincts and dump her.
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    (Original post by Black Hand Path)
    Me and her have been going out for a year. We used to get along really great because shes used to do whatever to keep me happy. I try to treat her nice also.

    Before christmas she started getting really distant. She was actually getting distant before that. Like I wanted to spend time with her but every day she would say she was too busy christmas shopping. Then coming back from her "shopping" with no gifts, claiming she couldn't find what she wanted, and had to go christmas shopping again.

    This continued all the way up until christmas. I asked my friends and they said "just wait till after christmas, if she is still distant? Then you know shes lying, dump her."

    Now most of the time i want to talk to her/spend time with her she claims that she is either studying or that she is spending time with her family. Like according to her shes spent the last two days at her sisters house, then when to her cousins house like that doesn't even make sense. When she told me she was going to her cousins house it was like 9pm.

    Problem is i have no real proof. And i never would have believed she would cheat on me. So what do I do?

    She's a woman so she will go out looking for stuff and not find anything she likes so will come back empty handed. I do that too sometimes. I also visit family late like 8pm, 9pm but only if I've been out shopping and it took me the whole day to do it but that's just me but that's no proof she's cheating but you need to tell her you think she's cheating because she comes back with no shopping and is refusing to spend no time with you. Even if she's studying, visiting relatives why can't you go too ? But she needs to make time to spend with you by taking a break from studying for one hour or visiting relatives a different day. If she keeps doing this and does not arrange any time for you then you know something is wrong. I can't say she's cheating because I don't know

    Most people believe no one will ever cheat on them, I have no idea why people think this when they see it regularly happening on Jeremy Kyle or with friends
    Ask her to go on the Jeremy Kyle show to take a lie detector test. See how she reacts. Maybe just the thought of meeting him will force her to start including you more in things and to Plan nights in or out together. Suggest going to the cinema more often, maybe once a month and buffet restaurants as their cheaper. Arrange to go bars, clubs fun fairs with friends together because maybe you just need to do more fun things like that to get the spark back
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    (Original post by Black Hand Path)
    Me and her have been going out for a year. We used to get along really great because shes used to do whatever to keep me happy. I try to treat her nice also.

    Before christmas she started getting really distant. She was actually getting distant before that. Like I wanted to spend time with her but every day she would say she was too busy christmas shopping. Then coming back from her "shopping" with no gifts, claiming she couldn't find what she wanted, and had to go christmas shopping again.

    This continued all the way up until christmas. I asked my friends and they said "just wait till after christmas, if she is still distant? Then you know shes lying, dump her."

    Now most of the time i want to talk to her/spend time with her she claims that she is either studying or that she is spending time with her family. Like according to her shes spent the last two days at her sisters house, then when to her cousins house like that doesn't even make sense. When she told me she was going to her cousins house it was like 9pm.

    Problem is i have no real proof. And i never would have believed she would cheat on me. So what do I do?
    Basically she is cheating on you, however, do not dump her yet, what i would do is start talking to her best friends and then f*ck her so hard that she can't walk (make sure you video this and send it to me at pornhub.com) and then dump her. Hope this is helpful and at the end of the day you is you and your mum is your mum
    Much love Dad xoxoxo
 
 
 
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