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    There is a girl I like, I feel like she isnt interested in me so i have been trying to get over her and it isnt working .

    I never got rejected because she never lets me speak to her like a proper conversation, I legit put in the effort but as always im just a socially awkward loser who can never amount to anything.

    I speak to other girls but i dont really feel anything for anyone else. It sucks why do I always go for the worst girls or why am i so unlucky
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    try using a ladder
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    Have you blocked all contact from her? That usually helps.

    Don't feel so hard on yourself, some people take way longer to get over a crush/rejection.
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    Have you blocked all contact from her? That usually helps.

    Don't feel so hard on yourself, some people take way longer to get over a crush/rejection.
    In 10 years ill probs still be posting on tsr "29 years old still never had a girlfriend"
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    Letting your emotions control your state of mind is a recipe for being miserable. Right now I know you're not in a good frame of mind, but to say it straight up you don't need a woman to make you happy, and the truth is even if you had one you probably still wouldn't be happy.

    You should accept each day just the way it is and let yourself enjoy the freedom of being your own man. It's not easy to do, but it beats waking up every morning believing your life's terrible. For now though maybe try to find something you enjoy to take your mind off things for a few days. Best of luck and hope you start feeling better soon.
 
 
 
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