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    So I've been on five dates with this guy and we have kissed (only a peck).

    We go out and have a good time, and I think we both want a relationship, but it's moving REALLY slow.

    I'm just wondering if this is strange not to have done anything more than a peck of a kiss?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So I've been on five dates with this guy and we have kissed (only a peck).

    We go out and have a good time, and I think we both want a relationship, but it's moving REALLY slow.

    I'm just wondering if this is strange not to have done anything more than a peck of a kiss?
    Yes, that is strange. Most people know rule of thumb is sex by 3rd/4th date.

    if you like the guy, then on next date try give him a few body language cues to escalate physically and see if he bites. He should do unless he's a priest or totally socially inept.

    And if he doesnt, then I would question entering a relationship with someone that you have to to coax to get their sexual side going.
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    I disagree with the above.

    My ex didn't kiss me until out 6th date and we were together 8 months.

    He could be shy, not know if you are interested. Although he may not be interested. It is hard to say.
 
 
 
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