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    If I ever catch them with dirty finger nails

    If their breath stinks

    If they've already lost their virginity (v shallow, I know)
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    (Original post by goldenusername)

    If they've already lost their virginity (v shallow, I know)

    How will you even know this?

    are you just gonna roll up and point blank ask them how many people they've slept with?

    A girl did this to me once on our first date. I thought it was a bit off tbh.
    Imagine if it was the other way round? most girls would do their nut................
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    I just like friendly, confident guys tbh. Guys with a decent sense of humour who I can have a good time with.
    Turn offs would be if they're shorter (but I'm short so unlikely), fat, needy, or controlling.
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    (Original post by ANM775)
    How will you even know this?

    are you just gonna roll up and point blank ask them how many people they've slept with?

    A girl did this to me once on our first date. I thought it was a bit off tbh.
    Imagine if it was the other way round? most girls would do their nut................
    Yeah ofc I will, I wouldn't mind if I was asked either. Body count is very important to some people, I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of people did ask this question tbh
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    (Original post by goldenusername)
    If I ever catch them with dirty finger nails

    If their breath stinks

    If they've already lost their virginity (v shallow, I know)
    3rd one is important to quite a few people But it's a shallow thread so it's allowed hehe
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    If a guy was shorter than me. I'm already very short at 5'3' and I don't think I could handle it his he was 5'2'
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    If they keep secrets. I'm not having any of this untrustworthy behaviour. Not even okay with friends!
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    (Original post by AspiringUnderdog)
    If they keep secrets. I'm not having any of this untrustworthy behaviour. Not even okay with friends!
    That's not shallow
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    (Original post by Yaboi)
    That's not shallow
    Okay i think of lack interest in people I don't see as intelligent usually. And this can sometimes be determined by grades.
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    if a guy was shorter than 5'10 sorry i know that's so shallow of me :/

    also if he and his family was very traditional in their religion because it'd be so difficult for us to mix in a way, idk how to explain
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    if the guy has dyed hair srry but naaa m8 jog on
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    If they are known for being easy or sleeping with lots of people
    If they do any kind of Drug
    If they have ever cheated on a partner before
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    Now you can call me old-school but i cannot stand vulgarity ~
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    If their swimming pool has a deep end
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    hypothetical ofc, but I can't deal with people who always cough and sneeze into the open air. I justb ehyegeikuge
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    1. If they're a smoker
    2. If they are generally unintelligent and uninterested
    3. If they aren't good humored
    4. If they are very overweight
    5. (this one is really petty) If they don't take care of their hair
    6. (this one is even worse) if they use too many americanisms
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    In no particular order:

    1. If they dont dress well/feminine
    2. If they have short hair (looks bad on most girls imo)
    3. If they dont wear heels every now and then
    4. If they dont have nice hands/legs/feet
    5. If they have bad acne

    Im sure there are more but im outta time for now...
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    they went to Homerton
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