What's a shallow reason you wouldn't date someone?

If they've already lost their virginity (v shallow, I know)

How will you even know this?

are you just gonna roll up and point blank ask them how many people they've slept with?

A girl did this to me once on our first date. I thought it was a bit off tbh.
Imagine if it was the other way round? most girls would do their nut................

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GKwon32

I just like friendly, confident guys tbh. Guys with a decent sense of humour who I can have a good time with.
Turn offs would be if they're shorter (but I'm short so unlikely), fat, needy, or controlling.

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goldenusername

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Original post by ANM775

How will you even know this?

are you just gonna roll up and point blank ask them how many people they've slept with?

A girl did this to me once on our first date. I thought it was a bit off tbh.
Imagine if it was the other way round? most girls would do their nut................

Yeah ofc I will, I wouldn't mind if I was asked either. Body count is very important to some people, I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of people did ask this question tbh

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UWS

OP

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Original post by goldenusername

If I ever catch them with dirty finger nails

If their breath stinks

If they've already lost their virginity (v shallow, I know)

3rd one is important to quite a few people :tongue:

But it's a shallow thread so it's allowed hehe

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If a guy was shorter than me. I'm already very short at 5'3' and I don't think I could handle it his he was 5'2'

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AspiringUnderdog

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If they keep secrets. I'm not having any of this untrustworthy behaviour. Not even okay with friends!

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Yaboi

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Original post by AspiringUnderdog

If they keep secrets. I'm not having any of this untrustworthy behaviour. Not even okay with friends!

That's not shallow

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AspiringUnderdog

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Original post by Yaboi

That's not shallow

Okay i think of lack interest in people I don't see as intelligent usually. And this can sometimes be determined by grades.

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xRenesme

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if a guy was shorter than 5'10 sorry i know that's so shallow of me :/

also if he and his family was very traditional in their religion because it'd be so difficult for us to mix in a way, idk how to explain

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jasmine888

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if the guy has dyed hair srry but naaa m8 jog on

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Samonia

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If they are known for being easy or sleeping with lots of people
If they do any kind of Drug
If they have ever cheated on a partner before

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The Joker ~

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Now you can call me old-school but i cannot stand vulgarity ~

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Anonymous #6

If their swimming pool has a deep end

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lenn7272

hypothetical ofc, but I can't deal with people who always cough and sneeze into the open air. I justb ehyegeikuge

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FlossieB

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1. If they're a smoker
2. If they are generally unintelligent and uninterested
3. If they aren't good humored
4. If they are very overweight
5. (this one is really petty) If they don't take care of their hair
6. (this one is even worse) if they use too many americanisms

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Spongebob'sPants

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In no particular order:

1. If they dont dress well/feminine
2. If they have short hair (looks bad on most girls imo)
3. If they dont wear heels every now and then
4. If they dont have nice hands/legs/feet
5. If they have bad acne

Im sure there are more but im outta time for now...