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    What's the oldest you'd date then?
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    (Original post by UWS)
    What's the oldest you'd date then?
    Some people might think it's weird but i'm pretty leniant with age above me. I'd probably date someone in their 20s haha

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    If he's shorter than me (165cm)
    Doesn't understand or can't take my sarcasm
    Is not witty
    Cannot grasp the concept of basic grammar
    Does not enjoy gaming
    And is a douche
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    Honestly wouldnt be attracted to a girl that was taller than me (5'9) - not for social reasons or anything, just because i'm more attracted to girls the same height or shorter.

    Also wouldnt be attracted to a girl that was unfit or who lived a lazy and boring lifestyle.

    My most shallow though, is not necessarily something that would stop be dating someone, but limit my interest in the first place, is that dont often find blonde girls attractive at all. I just find girls with dark hair way more sexy - it wouldnt be a deal breaker but would deffo limit my interest in the first place.
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    OK so I have a few things.

    1. Vegetarianism - I'm the type of guy who likes to cook for my women. I just Don't like it being so awkward, and having to plan and buy everything around your diet. Its such a difficult thing to deal with for me, I love cooking (especially with a partner) and its just so hard for me to accommodate the diet choice.

    2. Girls who don't like trying new things - This is self explanatory. Don't have to do new things often, but at least be open to it. This is a general thing for me, I'd like to do a bit of everything before I die, I'd like to do it with someone beside me who will enjoy it as much as I do.

    3. Entitled/Spoiled girls - You know the type "The man must do everything", No. I'll do it together with you, or do certain things on my own, I won't do everything though.

    4. Incompetent Girls - Please for god sake at least be able to work some things out for yourself, I don't mind coming to the rescue once in a while, but don't expect me to talk you though everything, all the time, every time.

    5. Not having perspective - I just want you to know that other people have feelings too, and reasons for doing what they do. I don't mind you complaining about your parents, everyone likes to ***** once in a while (I'm doing it right now) but then stop and think about WHY they did it.

    6. Being Gross - Doing stuff that is REALLY bad for you, like being very fat, Heavy Smoking and Drugs are the kind of things I mean. As well as horrible skin.

    That's it I guess. Is any of this unreasonable?

    Oh and being a regressive, as much as I find the Neon coloured hair and general Alt Style really hot. I can't stand the hatred, vailed racism, ignorance, lack of perspective (Just realized I basically mentioned this above) and constant "I'm a victim, give me money" attitude. You do more damage than good, while making your ego bigger.

    Shame, I REALLY find the weird (in a good way) Alt Style attractive.
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    1. Taller than me (5''11)
    2. Fat
    3.Heavy heavy smoker
    4.Hates gaming
    5. Being a biatch/snob 24/7
    6. Right now also max. 1 year older than me, younger is fine mostly
    7. More than 2 small tattoos (preferably actually 0 tho)
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    • If they don't act like a gentleman e.g. Opening doors, polite etc...
    • If they smell.
    • If they are smaller than me (most people aren't as i'm only 5"2).
    • If they smoke or do drugs.
    • If they are immature.
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    (Original post by UWS)
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    If they enjoy eating marshmallows or pork cheeks
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    -If they're a Sunderland FC fan (born and bred Geordie here)
    - If they're a mummy's boy
    -if they have cats. I cannot be doing with cats!
    -any sort of dodgy taste in music
    - if they're Tory supporters (my other half is a Tory and he knows it makes me really cross)
    - Anyone who has a problem with my disabilities (it has been known)
    -Sexist or homophobic
    - Alcoholic (I'm not talking enjoys a few pints at the weekend I'm talking full blown alcoholic. Been there, done that and not going back)
    - Has to get the approval of his mates before he does anything...
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    (Original post by princessmaire80)
    -If they're a Sunderland FC fan (born and bred Geordie here)
    - If they're a mummy's boy
    -if they have cats. I cannot be doing with cats!
    -any sort of dodgy taste in music
    - if they're Tory supporters (my other half is a Tory and he knows it makes me really cross)
    - Anyone who has a problem with my disabilities (it has been known)
    -Sexist or homophobic
    - Alcoholic (I'm not talking enjoys a few pints at the weekend I'm talking full blown alcoholic. Been there, done that and not going back)
    - Has to get the approval of his mates before he does anything...
    What would that be?
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      if they are stupid
      if they smoke
      if they suffer from any mental health issues
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      Bad breath
      Bad teeth
      Smoker
      No beard
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      (Original post by Precious Illusions)
      Bad breath
      Bad teeth
      Smoker
      No beard
      No beard?! Ooosh
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      Flat arse
      Speech impediment
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      Bmi <40
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      No beard?! Ooosh
      I love beards :indiff:
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      (Original post by BlindingLight)
      Bmi <40
      40?

      Yikes
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      (Original post by hezzlington)
      40?

      Yikes
      need free bed
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      Well if the person is:
      arrogant or too proud
      Not attractive to me
      Smokes or takes alcohol
      No ambition in life or lacks goals
      :dolphin::dolphin::dolphin::dolphin:boy!
     
     
     
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