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    I'm in my late 20's and always thought by 30 I would be in a long term relationship and have children. Having a family has always been my dream and the only thing I can think of that would make me really happy.

    I had a relationship with someone I really loved last year and he was like a good friend aswell as a partner. I thought we would be together for ages but things unexpectedly took a turn for the worse. We started arguing over some minor things and he fell out of love with me. I was/still am devastated. If it didn't work with him I'm scared it won't work with anyone. I've lost faith that relationships work and not sure i even want one again.
    People break up and that's life. It seems that everyone inevitably breaks up for whatever reason, becomes unhappy or cheat on their partner. I even hear alot of people who are secretly really unhappy/unfilled/regret being a parent.

    I feel really lost like I don't even know what I want anymore. What I have always wanted doesn't seem to be so good after all.

    Anyone feel the same or have anything helpful to say?
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    I know how you feel. I'm 26 this year and haven't had the greatest of luck with love. I'm not sure if and when I'll meet someone who I could potentially settle with. I'm trying to focus on my career for the time being and hope it comes along when I'm not actively looking, but it's hard to not feel crappy about it.
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