I'm in my late 20's and always thought by 30 I would be in a long term relationship and have children. Having a family has always been my dream and the only thing I can think of that would make me really happy.
I had a relationship with someone I really loved last year and he was like a good friend aswell as a partner. I thought we would be together for ages but things unexpectedly took a turn for the worse. We started arguing over some minor things and he fell out of love with me. I was/still am devastated. If it didn't work with him I'm scared it won't work with anyone. I've lost faith that relationships work and not sure i even want one again.
People break up and that's life. It seems that everyone inevitably breaks up for whatever reason, becomes unhappy or cheat on their partner. I even hear alot of people who are secretly really unhappy/unfilled/regret being a parent.
I feel really lost like I don't even know what I want anymore. What I have always wanted doesn't seem to be so good after all.
Anyone feel the same or have anything helpful to say?
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