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    okay me and my boyfriend have a great sex life. however the only things I won't do is anal and oral. he has been asking for oral sex lately and I have told him no so many times but he just keeps pushing it. he calls me selfish and even said his ex girlfriend use to give him oral sex and that it was "amazing" and that just got me mad and I didn't speak to him for 3 whole days after he said that.

    I dont expect it to be done on me nor do I want to it with him. I mean isn't sex enough? I just find oral and anal disgusting no offence to those who do it out there✌.Am I in the wrong? but honestly guys any advise would be appreciated

    No you're not in the wrong, if you don't want to do anal or oral sex then your boyfriend should respect your decision simple as and not try and guilt trip you into doing it.

    He's the one being selfish by pressuring you for oral and anal when you've clearly said "no" multiple times before

    Aw ur not a terrible person, if anything, he is for making you feel that way
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