I like how everyone here is attacking me like I'm doing something so horribly wrong by asking my boyfriend to respect my wishes like he would expect me to respect his when we've come to an agreement. If he asked me not to drink here (where it's currently illegal for me to drink) and we both agreed that it was a reasonable request as he had my best interest at heart, and then I turned around and did it anyways because all my friends were doing it and I felt "left out", he would get angry with me for disrespecting his wishes and rightfully so. The difference is, I wouldn't because I know it's against the law and that I can get arrested and fined for doing so.
Judging by everyone that has commented so far, apparently, laws regarding alcohol must not matter in the UK?? From what I've read, a minor can be fined up to 1,000 pounds for trying to buy alcohol...
For all of you attacking me for being unreasonable or preventing him from having a social life, I literally said in my original post that I don't mind him going out with his friends. I do not have an issue with him having fun, as long as he isn't breaking any laws while doing so. In turn, I am "allowed" the same freedoms. As any significant other should want, I just want my boyfriend to be safe and reasonable because I don't want to see anything bad happen to him. I've seen kids our age that have ruined their lives over something as silly as a beer or weed, all because they were in the wrong place, with the wrong people (mostly cops), at the wrong time. I don't want to see this happpen to him because he has so much potential.