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    NGL I invested so much time into this crush and shes preety much not interested, but her friends are also hot.

    I have never spoken to them but they have seen me try and speak to her, tbh and she has probably said how awkward I am.

    Good idea or nah?
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    I wouldn't recommend it unless you want to be seen as a **** boy
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    (Original post by Nesgul)
    I wouldn't recommend it unless you want to be seen as a **** boy
    Eh I have never had a girlfriend it would end up having the reverse effect.

    Tbh idk why I even want a girlfriend...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Eh I have never had a girlfriend it would end up having the reverse effect.

    Tbh idk why I even want a girlfriend...
    Then don't have one, you don't sound like the type of guy who's going to commit, sound more like a midnight troll anon... oh wait its past midnight.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Eh I have never had a girlfriend it would end up having the reverse effect.

    Tbh idk why I even want a girlfriend...
    No, it really won't.

    Let me be frank; you sound about 13 and not mature enough for a relationship. Just leave it for a while and grow up.
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    What The **** is wrong with your mind why would You say something like this
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    Nope its a bad idea no point
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    no its creepy
    that ship has sailed move on.
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    just no.
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    maybe wait like a month or something before hitting on the friends.


    but I don't see the problem really, if she's not interested why should it matter to her if you go for her friend?

    Once in a club I tried chatting up some girl, she seemed flirty ....but I guess she was being fake flirty as when I tried to step things up by getting her to dance with me she refused. I asked again, and she refused again and stepped away from. It was clear that she was obviously not interested so I started hitting on her friend. The first girl then had a somewhat disappointed look on her face.

    Sorry but don't expect me to live my days out like a pope just because you rejected me....
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    NGL I invested so much time into this crush and shes preety much not interested, but her friends are also hot.

    I have never spoken to them but they have seen me try and speak to her, tbh and she has probably said how awkward I am.

    Good idea or nah?
    As a guy who's been friend zoned but not taken advantage of it, I'll ask you to take the advice from this guy....

    https://media.giphy.com/media/24xRxr...facebook_s.jpg
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    If theyre interested fine. if they are not remotely interested, and lets face it it not a great start that theyre second choice and their mate has rejected you, then it just adds to the humiliation. Probably best to search out fresh unspoilt pastures..
 
 
 
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