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    Is it just me or? Basically when it comes to the holidays you and your friends stop talking these are friends from college ... what i mean is during college time we talk a lot message eachother but then once the holidays come we literally stop messaging one another does this ever happen to anyone? it saddens me because it makes me feel as though our friendship is only there because of college
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    Is it just me or? Basically when it comes to the holidays you and your friends stop talking these are friends from college ... what i mean is during college time we talk a lot message eachother but then once the holidays come we literally stop messaging one another does this ever happen to anyone? it saddens me because it makes me feel as though our friendship is only there because of college
    This is me, but I am the person who doesn't speak to college friends outside of term time. Personally (it may be a different reason for your friends) I struggle to make conversation in general, whilst I can get on fine at college and talk to people almost every day about random stuff. It's not that I'm not interested or don't like the person, it's just that I find it difficult to maintain it and find things to talk about etc, and now that I am at uni I don't really talk to those college friends anymore, with one or two exceptions.
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    yes this happens to me, if i make an effort sometimes they respond and we chat, but it's not consistent
 
 
 
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