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    Everyday I see self loathing amongst males on TSR and i can relate to this. As we live in a world of social media we are given this image that you need to be 6'2, have a beard/sharp Jawline,look a few years older, and have a zayn malik voice in order to attract women. As a result its very easy for a teenage male to think of themselves as ugly especially after being rejected.

    But the reality is...

    1.)You actually are not ugly and if you are its often things that you can change. Also having more confidence will often make you look better.

    2.)The girl who rejected you is not worth it, and people get rejected/ignored whatever for the stupidest reasons anyway.

    3.) You think you have no success with girls when the reality is that girls who like you are shy to approach, or you simply dont like them back.

    4.)Having a girlfriend often won't make you that much happier anyway.
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    did you happen to get dumped?
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    (Original post by CraigBackner)
    did you happen to get dumped?
    Lol nah
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    (Original post by SuperHuman98)
    have a zayn malik voice in order to attract women.
    His speaking voice or singing voice?
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    (Original post by SinsNotTragedies)
    His speaking voice or singing voice?
    Idk I have never heard him speak
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    Im not quite sure why or how I made this thread irs quite embarassing, im sure I had good intentions
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    (Original post by SuperHuman98)
    Idk I have never heard him speak
    Lol, who said you need a Zayn Malik voice to attract women then? Bc idk about that :indiff:
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    Some things just can't be changed :hide: and said things affect your confidence. I feel sorry for those people, even if others cannot relate
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    (Original post by SeanFM)
    Some things just can't be changed :hide: and said things affect your confidence. I feel sorry for those people, even if others cannot relate
    As Tai Lopez says dont stress over things you have no control over
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    (Original post by SuperHuman98)
    As Tai Lopez says dont stress over things you have no control over
    You know what's more important than materialistic things? Knowledge.
 
 
 
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