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ultimate turn on

having a few issues with my bf at the moment so im going to use the answers to this question to give me some ideas. Id like to know what turns people on? what makes them think wow when it comes to the opposite sex( or even same sex if you that way inclined)?

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Reply 1

khil

Touch, I reckon. One time a guy friend was stroking my thigh (have been flirting constantly before) and for the life of me I could NOT concentrate on the DVD we were watching! lol :biggrin:

Suits - men in suits look so dashing. You gotta have the height for it though. I don't go for guys who're simply taller than me (that's not hard, I'm only 5'1'') - I want a man who's actually tall, so they must be 5'10'' and above, preferably 5'11''-6' :biggrin:

this is the one "shallow" bit of me that requires the physical. Looks can grow on you - height can't.

A hot body definitely helps :p:

Lean, preferably V-shape or else some shape/muscles involved. Height. Height is a must for me. I don't normally find short guys attractive even if they're good-looking. But if they're average-looking but got height on their side, they have a shot :p:

Anyway, OP, you trying to turn your bf on or your bf trying to turn you on?

Reply 2

Fingers and bones

Long brown hair, nice face and skinny jeans so their arse looks good :smile:

Reply 3

Jamesn1

A hot dance in the club does it well.

Reply 4

Ilora-Danon

Tension!! If there's a tension, a sexual tension, it can be electric.
Just the way someone looks at you, with an inner smirk, phwoar.

Reply 5

mermania

I like knees and elbows.

Reply 6

khil

Ilora-Danon

Tension!! If there's a tension, a sexual tension, it can be electric.
Just the way someone looks at you, with an inner smirk, phwoar.

Oh yeh, a cheeky smile :biggrin:

It's so charming! Or a sweet smile. Definitely a nice smile in general anyway lol.

Reply 7

Profesh

A really, really good dancer.

Reply 8

redef1ne

Kisses on the neck. Phwoar.

Reply 9

LooksLikeJesus

Shoulders and cuddly-ness :biggrin:

Eyes...

Reply 10

Viridis

Guys in uniform. Oh my oh my.

Reply 11

Francophobia

Intellectual debate...
Long, silky hair (on guys, that is :p:

)...
An appreciation of mild kinkiness...

Reply 12

Monkton

Kinkiness, tension, mystery, surprise, control, submission, erotica, massage... the list goes on. Usually works best if you mix a few of those together :P. But tip: you won't be turned on if you're spending the time thinking 'I should be turned on'.

Reply 13

loopymeg

A cheeky personality is always good, particularly when combined with a dirty mind :rolleyes:

Body-wise, a nice sculpted arse does it for me :biggrin:

Reply 14

Vetinari

Francophobia

Intellectual debate...

Passionate intellectual debate.

legs on show

Necks. I really like necks. Neck action - kissing, biting etc.

Reply 17

Font

for me it is a sexy female climber climbing something hard - it makes me go "wow, shes hot and fit" - but thats just me because i'm a climber and i'm inclined towards female climbers as a result :smile:

- a real turn on :rolleyes:

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