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i'm a 16 year old girl, but the only guys i like are ones older than me. I do find people my age attractive, but I wouldn't really do anything with them. I feel like the minimum age of a guy for me should be 19 but I like guys in their 20s and 30s too. How do I stop this? Age becomes less of a problem when I'm older, but a a 16 year old a lot of people find it weird.
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Apart from what some people think, why do you want to stop it?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
i'm a 16 year old girl, but the only guys i like are ones older than me. I do find people my age attractive, but I wouldn't really do anything with them. I feel like the minimum age of a guy for me should be 19 but I like guys in their 20s and 30s too. How do I stop this? Age becomes less of a problem when I'm older, but a a 16 year old a lot of people find it weird.
As a 21 yr old myself I can say two things. Older guys might be more pro relationships and therefore treat you with more respect and for the relationship to be more serious. However, there is also the risk that they are more likely to expect more physically (if you know what I mean) and so you may feel some pressure in that respect if you are not ready, also if they only want physical things they are more likely to be able to get that ... they are smarter too!
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I'm like you, i just find older guys more attractive and more able to fulfill what i want in bed as they've had experience most of the time and know how to treat a girl nicely but they're also more trustworthy in most situations. I don't see anything wrong with it, but maybe wait until you're 18 so you don't get them into trouble.
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(Original post by Maariya.thakerr)
I'm like you, i just find older guys more attractive and more able to fulfill what i want in bed as they've had experience most of the time and know how to treat a girl nicely but they're also more trustworthy in most situations. I don't see anything wrong with it, but maybe wait until you're 18 so you don't get them into trouble.
I have seen your name pop-up so many times today lool
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I have seen your name pop-up so many times today lool
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I'm 20 and also like guys who are much older. The oldest guy I slept with was 48 and it felt so much better than being with a guy my own age. Realistically I know that a relationship is unlikely to work with such a big age gap and it's also really difficult telling friends because of their judgements
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its pretty normal to be honest, just wait a couple years tho so you dont feel rushed in to anything.
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