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Reply 1
Of course not. If you've not found the right person, then there's no reason to expect to have been in a relationship...

I don't think its too with being choosy, just not finding someone who provides the right 'vibe' with you that makes you want to take it further.

I wouldn't worry about it if I were you...

(Sorry if that's not very helpful!)
Reply 2
what I meant was that at 20 isn't it kind of strange to not have found someone?
Reply 3
~haze~
what I meant was that at 20 isn't it kind of strange to not have found someone?


Not at all :smile:
Reply 4
blackswan
well if you don't have the right feelings then you just haent come across the right guys. There's no point in forcing yourself into a relationship where you feel nothing for the guy, just to say you have been in a relationship. You're 20, no 40!
And I'm really sick of these threads.

yeah, some people do force themselves into relationships just for the sake of having one, but at 20 it is very unusual to not have had one.
Reply 5
why did I get negged for what I said? It is unusual, but I did not say there is anything wrong with the OP or with not having had a boyfriend by 20!
mel*~
why did I get negged for what I said? It is unusual, but I did not say there is anything wrong with the OP or with not having had a boyfriend by 20!


Don't take it personally - some people are neg-rep happy. I got negged for saying that JK Rowling shouldn't write anymore Harry Potter books cos she's written enough lol :redface:

And OP, I don't think that's weird at all. Someone will come along when you least expect it :smile: Don't worry yourself about it!
mel*~
yeah, some people do force themselves into relationships just for the sake of having one, but at 20 it is very unusual to not have had one.


Why is it unusual? Not everyone starts dating at 12.
Reply 8
nanananabatman
Why is it unusual? Not everyone starts dating at 12.

well usually people have had boyfriends by 20
I honestly don't believe that usually people have had boyfriends by 20. My friend didn't meet her first bf till 22. It's things like these that make 17 years olds run around AAAAAAAARGH WHAT'S WRONG WITH MEEEEEEE.
What kind of guys have you been out with in the past, OP? What kind of dates did they take you on, and what were they like? Why didn't you like them?
Reply 11
I never said it does not happen, but I said it was unusual, because most people usually have had been in relationships by then. I however didn't say she is by any means abnormal.
Really, why neg someone for speaking the truth
Theres nothing that says what age we have to be in a relationship by, it just happens when it happens and when its right, and I mean really right then you'll know
Reply 13
you mean a long term thing?
mel*~
I never said it does not happen, but I said it was unusual, because most people usually have had been in relationships by then. I however didn't say she is by any means abnormal.
Really, why neg someone for speaking the truth


I dunno, don't ask me.
Reply 15
nanananabatman
I dunno, don't ask me.

er ya, wasn't really asking lol
~haze~
what I meant was that at 20 isn't it kind of strange to not have found someone?



if you believe that, there is something very, *very* wrong with the world.
Reply 17
wow now I got positive rep for saying it is unusual to not have had a relationship by 20. At least someone agrees!
Reply 18
i don't think they agree. they probably felt sorry for you
Reply 19
ph9
i don't think they agree. they probably felt sorry for you

sure, people would so give +rep because they feel sorry for someone.:rolleyes: Some people just can't accept the truth.