First of all I hope I will get respectful answers because I am genuinely seeking your opinion and, tbh, I try to be respect w/ I reply.
Anyway, if you went out with a guy (and you're a girl) a handful of times only very casually but then you ended it because you felt a little overwhelmed at the pace he was wanting to go (social anxiety and all that....) how would you feel if he, out of the blue, contacted you a couple years later asking how you are and if the two of you could meet up. Would you think the guy was a playa and just putting out 'bait' to several girls seeing who would 'bite' or do you think that he had a genuine interest and was reaching out again? There had been no contact at all in the mean time, like I said, for a couple of years. My friend is asking me and I don't know what to tell her. :-(.
My friend does have social anxiety but she kinda liked this guy but got all in her own head and ended things. I would like to encourage her to see him but don't want to mislead her into a bad situation where he's playing her.
What would you say?