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I think I might be bisexual

I am an 18 year old boy who has recently started looking at boys in a different way.
It all started when I went away on a ski trip and shared a bed with my best friend. I had a wet dream about him whilst he lay next to me.
I've had a sexual experience with a girl in the past and thoroughly enjoyed it but I was very drunk at the time.
When I get changed for squash, I have started admiring the other boys physiques.
I'm going on another school trip next week with my best friend, should I tell him how I feel or is it just a phase?

Reply 1

JordanSpratt

People have weird dreams that don't mean anything usually. I wouldn't look too deep into that. Are you sexually attracted to men? Just admiring some athletic guys physique is not odd. I would suggest you live your life not worrying about it. If you are bi, then it will become clearer to you as time goes on.

Reply 2

beenfluencer

Do you watch gay/bi porn? what part of guy do you find attractive? is it more thinking they're attractive on a physical level or do they turn you on, do you want to have sex with a guy and could see yourself having boyfriend as well as a gf?

Also I wouldn't tell him on the trip, sounds like you're not 100% sure.

If you are, depending on what type of person he is he might need a minute and during a trip away wouldn't the best place, esp if your sharing a bed. If he is has an open mind and you feel he won't care go for it.

Reply 3

ckfeister

Original post by 12445

your bisexual than.

Reply 4

517340

Points at a lady "YA DIG?"
Points to a dude "YA DIIIGGG??"

If your answer was yes to both questions, congratulations, you are bisexual.

Don't worry about it. If you like it you like it, just go with it.

Reply 5

Hopefully1

Okay..... I think to some degree everyone is bisexual at some point to some degree. Girls can get crushes on other girls, girls admire other women's bodies as well (can you tell I'm a girl) so I think guys can have this happen too. BUT..... having a crush and admiration of someone else is different that wanting to get sexual with them and having them interact with you sexually. You had a weird dream, you admire bodies but is that what you want? I think everyone feels the 'need' to have a sexual label which is ridiculous and can be premature. I have had full on crushes on girls and I certainly can admire women's breasts and figures but believe me I am totally heterosexual. How can I say that because even though my heart could pitter-patter when I saw said girl and respond like you do w/ a crush I never wanted to touch or be touched sexually - I didn't find that appealing at all. Weird maybe. I am also in a very happy long term relationship with a guy. Oh, and I've certainly have had plenty of crushes on guys as well.

Why don't you just gives things plenty of time there is no need to make anytime soon.