If you happen to be a person who is less than confident, then sharing might be good for you. It basically forces you to meet your roommate and gets you used to being sociable with new people. It is really surprising how many people go totally into themselves and are too scared to even leave their room during the first week and then end up meeting no one.
From what I've seen, people who share rooms automatically increase the number of people who they encounter, so find it a lot easier to settle. Please, please PLEASE don't hide away in your room during the first week, because (trust me on this) it really does make it harder to find your feet.
From what I've seen, people who share rooms automatically increase the number of people who they encounter, so find it a lot easier to settle. Please, please PLEASE don't hide away in your room during the first week, because (trust me on this) it really does make it harder to find your feet.
The downside is you could loathe that person, then one of you gets cut out of whatever grouping forms. I have noticed that happen to people too...
Well i'm prettty sociable, but are there any downsides for being in a single room? I mean, doesn't everyone lounge in other peoples rooms etc? Like there are no curfews etc?
Well i'm prettty sociable, but are there any downsides for being in a single room? I mean, doesn't everyone lounge in other peoples rooms etc? Like there are no curfews etc?
If you get into a social part of college then its fine (in Aidan's its the curves). I was unlucky, loads of people on my corridor are so anti social that they effectively dont exist. Someone managed to put a load of complete reclauses down there....
If you get into a social part of college then its fine (in Aidan's its the curves). I was unlucky, loads of people on my corridor are so anti social that they effectively dont exist. Someone managed to put a load of complete reclauses down there....
Yeah, I want to join a couple of socities, and I cannot be sober on a Friday,Saturday or Wednesday(in Delhi, wednesday is a big clubbing night).
Do you like Cuths? Is the bar, as good as put out to be? I remember visiting cuths, ahh.
Are you a recluse? Heh. I think everyone needs some alone time now and then.
Yeah, I want to join a couple of socities, and I cannot be sober on a Friday,Saturday or Wednesday(in Delhi, wednesday is a big clubbing night).
Do you like Cuths? Is the bar, as good as put out to be? I remember visiting cuths, ahh.
Are you a recluse? Heh. I think everyone needs some alone time now and then.
Cuths I have not really had a good enough look around to make my mind up with, the only time I tend to go in most of the bailey colleges.
And nah, defo not a reclause, I go out most of the time, when I am on here I am normally doing something else at the same time. Just prefer a more social corridor, some of the people on my corridor are really isolationist, to the point of actually going to the canteen, loading up their tray, taking it to their room, eating it, take their tray back, go and sit in their room for the rest of the time. Tis rather scary coming to think of it...
Cuths I have not really had a good enough look around to make my mind up with, the only time I tend to go in most of the bailey colleges.
And nah, defo not a reclause, I go out most of the time, when I am on here I am normally doing something else at the same time. Just prefer a more social corridor, some of the people on my corridor are really isolationist, to the point of actually going to the canteen, loading up their tray, taking it to their room, eating it, take their tray back, go and sit in their room for the rest of the time. Tis rather scary coming to think of it...
Are they even allowed to take their trays back into the room? Well, honestly that is a bit sad, isn't it. But I guess hermits need an education as well.
Are they even allowed to take their trays back into the room? Well, honestly that is a bit sad, isn't it. But I guess hermits need an education as well.
Yeah, you are allowed to eat food in your room. I could understand someone rushing for a deadline doing it, but people who do it everytime, is really sad. Its not exactly too hard to at least be on speaking terms with some people now, is it?
Though apparently the college now has £1500 of crockery missing, so ppls rooms are gonna get searched if it does not show back up...
Yeah, you are allowed to eat food in your room. I could understand someone rushing for a deadline doing it, but people who do it everytime, is really sad. Its not exactly too hard to at least be on speaking terms with some people now, is it?
Though apparently the college now has £1500 of crockery missing, so ppls rooms are gonna get searched if it does not show back up...
What's the point of hiding dirty crockery in your room? Besides being a breeding ground for bugs. Maybe they are entomologists and breeding their very own collection. I wouldn't put it past them.
What's the point of hiding dirty crockery in your room? Besides being a breeding ground for bugs. Maybe they are entomologists and breeding their very own collection. I wouldn't put it past them.
I take it they wash it up and use it for cereal toast etc...
Well honestly how hard would it be to buy their own. I hope that I won't have these sorts of people in my corridor.
Probably not that hard. But they might even have their own. It is just laziness and/or absent mindedness. It's just one of those things that don't occur to people to do. I say that with no knowledge of Durham at all; am only drawing on my experiences at boarding school. (Although, for the record, I am most fastidious about my cutlery!)
From what I've seen, people who share rooms automatically increase the number of people who they encounter, so find it a lot easier to settle. Please, please PLEASE don't hide away in your room during the first week, because (trust me on this) it really does make it harder to find your feet.
Its got nothing to do with me not wanting to be sociable, the only way I am going to get through the first few days is being as outgoing as I can! Its just that I want it to be MY room, where I feel comfortable. I wont feel that if I have to share, and I know what sharing with someone you dont know feels, I hate it. I just DONT want to share.
Cuths I have not really had a good enough look around to make my mind up with, the only time I tend to go in most of the bailey colleges.
And nah, defo not a reclause, I go out most of the time, when I am on here I am normally doing something else at the same time. Just prefer a more social corridor, some of the people on my corridor are really isolationist, to the point of actually going to the canteen, loading up their tray, taking it to their room, eating it, take their tray back, go and sit in their room for the rest of the time. Tis rather scary coming to think of it...
Whaaaat? People actually do that? So not a good sign. Those people are a minority though right?
Majority of people enjoy getting smashed, socialising, chatting in rooms etc?