The Student Room Group

Reply 1

I don't understand why you have to feel ugly, weird or boring...

Wait for someone who feels right to you, and loves you for who you are. There are some people who haven't had a relationship with another in thier 30's, so don't wory, it's normal.

Reply 2

Not weird at all. Good for you.

Reply 3

The only weird thing about it is that you thought you needed to make a thread about it.

Reply 4

I had my first proper boyfriend when I was 20. Heck, some of my friends who are older aren't in relationships either! Just let love come to youuuuu :smile:

Reply 5

It's not about being ugly, boring, or weird.

You'll find a person u like on the right time. I just had my 1st BF with 18 and I'm proud of it.. at least I wasn't as many girls who had a BF to show to their friends and after all.. regret for everything. Or.. girls with 20, who have dated 10 different guys (*yucky*).

Reply 6

Think of it like this...

"I am sooo damn good I haven't found anyone at my level yet".

Sorted.

Reply 7

I think you are doing the right thing to wait until the right guy comes along. I've never had a bf and I'm 20. There is no age by which you have to have done these things. You shouldn't feel weird or ugly.

Reply 8

Anonymous
Everytime I look at my best friend's boyfriend I think-
thank God that isn't me.

Minger is he?

Reply 9

If you're happy with it, good for you!

Reply 10

Anonymous

Everytime I look at my best friend's boyfriend I think-
thank God that isn't me.

Is this really weird? I would like a boyfriend but I'd rather wait for a nice one lol

:tsr2:


I feel exactly the same but the opposite way lol, Im 18 and male and haven't had a gf and tbh i would rather wait too. Everyone else can meh as far as im concerned, im prepared to wait and who knows waiting may make it all the better for you.
I wouldn't say weird at all, more like sensible.

Reply 11

i wouldnt worry about not having a boyfriend .... i wouldve waited too , find someone nice :smile: