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Does my stepdad have feelings for me?

My mum and stepdad have been married for 3 years now and we're close in a father daughter sense. As i live in a very hot country, i tend to wear lingerie/bikini and thong a majority. My stepdad has seen my body on a number of occasions and he's told me that my body is sexy. I took it as a compliment and didn't think that he'd crush on me but recently i've been noticing when i'm in the pool wearing summer underwear he'd watch my body/me and would sometimes come in the pool with me with his boxers on only holding my hips. I didn't say anything at first and tried to ignore it but he started to say how he wishes he was young enough to have fun with me properly. I told my mom and she said that he's just kidding. Once i was on the couch in my bra and underwear and he came and sat next to me normally. I found everything that the did normal up until the point where he slyly slid his arm around my waist and massaged my thigh. I immediately got up and went making excuses that i had homework.
Then, the day after i was sitting on the counter in my kitchen and he came from behind unlatched my bra (which i was unaware off) but noticed when my boobs were on show. He then slapped my thighs and told me that he had a s_x dream with me.
What do i do?

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Reply 1
:getmecoat:

Ok, that's just bloody creepy af. You need to speak to your mum.
hes a creep, tell your mum
Show how hot you are please before we can decide your next move ^^

- Your stepdad <3

Uhm oops I am not disguised anymore, what do young people say uhm uhm

Cash me tonite how abou dah? #YOLO #STEPFATHERLIVESMATTER #MYROOM @9OCLOCK
(edited 7 years ago)
*bump*
What did I even read :erm:
Reply 6
I saw a movie that started like this… ended in a bit of a mess, not just in the movie.
Reply 7
wtf is this
He's been watching too much Pornhub, serious step-relative trend on there right now.
this is too saucy to not bump

also did this actually happen or is it just some weird fantasy?
Wtffff this is messed up lol
Definitely saucy. But, maybe you shouldn't just be lounging around in your bra/thong/summer underwear if you know your step dad is looking at you in a sexual way. If it makes you uncomfortable don't wear that in his view otherwise not sure you should be complaining about it. I live in a very hot climate too but don't wear just my underwear in front of my family. There are definitely alternatives that are cool.

No, I am not shaming you but if you don't like his response then change what you wear if you really aren't bothered don't worry about his response. If he touches you or makes physical advances toward you then slap him, tell him 'no' and tell your mum.

I would be totally creeped out if my stepdad behaved that way.
Woahh. Wtf.
Alarmingly improper. Go to the police and/or social services. Given that your mother appears to be in denial, you must get the authorities involved.
Original post by Anonymous
My mum and stepdad have been married for 3 years now and we're close in a father daughter sense. As i live in a very hot country, i tend to wear lingerie/bikini and thong a majority. My stepdad has seen my body on a number of occasions and he's told me that my body is sexy. I took it as a compliment and didn't think that he'd crush on me but recently i've been noticing when i'm in the pool wearing summer underwear he'd watch my body/me and would sometimes come in the pool with me with his boxers on only holding my hips. I didn't say anything at first and tried to ignore it but he started to say how he wishes he was young enough to have fun with me properly. I told my mom and she said that he's just kidding. Once i was on the couch in my bra and underwear and he came and sat next to me normally. I found everything that the did normal up until the point where he slyly slid his arm around my waist and massaged my thigh. I immediately got up and went making excuses that i had homework.
Then, the day after i was sitting on the counter in my kitchen and he came from behind unlatched my bra (which i was unaware off) but noticed when my boobs were on show. He then slapped my thighs and told me that he had a s_x dream with me.
What do i do?


convince your mom that you're right if she doesn't listen tell some other adult in your family
Well this is totally not at all disturbing.... :eek: :eek2: :eek4: :eek3:
*bump*
I understand you live in a hot country but you can at least guard your own modesty. For example you can wear a dress, shorts or a light cotton top. Surely you don't need to sit around half naked in the house. All hot countries (majority) have AC

How did you not notice your bra unlatch? It's so easy to feel someone unlatching a bra and it would take time to unlatch.

I'm sure your mum would be alarmed too.

No need to troll.
Probably a troll but still is kind of sexy. If you know he fancies you then why do you keep sitting around in your underwear? Also make sure you lock your knicker draw because he probably sniffs them.

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