Girlfriend cheated on me and left me suddenly all alone

Dude, I have dated a girl for about half a year got together for few months then things ended, since we are in different places, some other issues, like fading passion due to distance, time difference, me being a moron sometimes etc. I still feel bad about it, cry about at nights, missing her day and night whenever I am free, seeing those little things in normal life that reminds me of her, so I am kinda occupied by the situation. Whilst I still have hope that things would get better, altho knowing its going to be tough to work things out later. I have few friends as well, who are not good listeners at all. I do struggle on a daily basis now, in cycles, being optimistic then pessimistic. Although my situation isn't as bad as yours TBH, believe me I don't feel any better, since I don't feel loved anymore like I used to feel, but my advice for you is to talk to people you know, not necessarily friends, especially girls know about those issues better than guys, it really does help, Be more sociable, pick up a hobby, make friends. The emotional attachment could last for a long time, for me, I really don't know how to solve it yet. What I have heard is that you have to live a New Life, be a New Man. When my ex and I were together, I felt that she was the only one in my life. Now what you have to do is to change that, its time to treat yourself better, rather than struggling.

Sorry for being general. Anyway, now I am going to continue my daily struggle, sounds sarcastic, but I believe things will get better soon, it just takes time.

so... she actually wanted to stay with a cheating ho?

Hi all.

I have been dating this girl for 10 months now, and we were so dedicated and in love. She was a very kind person, she would always write me letters, and never failed to ever be there for me . However last night I discovered that she has feelings for somebody else and loves them more than me, and she has also had sex with them.

I do not have any friends, and I mean this very literally: I have nobody in my phone contacts but family. In school I do not speak to anybody and I eat my lunch alone and I read alone in the library. I also suffer from many physical problems such as klinfelters syndrome. I was born deformed with a latent tumor.

Now that she has left me completely, I am struggling so badly. I dont know what to do. I need somebody, desperately, anybody, But where do I begin?

If anybody could help me, I would be so grateful. This loneliness is unbearable, it is so bad I cannot even breathe sometimes, and all I can do is be sick and shiver all over, or self harm.

I don't understand what you mean. She was the one who cheated on me, not the other way around.

Hi all.

I have been dating this girl for 10 months now, and we were so dedicated and in love. She was a very kind person, she would always write me letters, and never failed to ever be there for me . However last night I discovered that she has feelings for somebody else and loves them more than me, and she has also had sex with them.

I do not have any friends, and I mean this very literally: I have nobody in my phone contacts but family. In school I do not speak to anybody and I eat my lunch alone and I read alone in the library. I also suffer from many physical problems such as klinfelters syndrome. I was born deformed with a latent tumor.

Now that she has left me completely, I am struggling so badly. I dont know what to do. I need somebody, desperately, anybody, But where do I begin?

If anybody could help me, I would be so grateful. This loneliness is unbearable, it is so bad I cannot even breathe sometimes, and all I can do is be sick and shiver all over, or self harm.