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    Wherever I go, the first few months people seem to really like me and then quite quickly they lose interest, stop inviting me out etc. This has happened at Uni, Secondary and Primary school.

    I'm apparently a nice guy, I don't lie, I don't chat s*** about others, I respect people's opinions and their space yet people just don't seem to like me. In fact, I'm starting to feel really lonely. Even in my University Business Studies group chat, people no longer ever respond to my questions/messages (despite it saying seen) but they always respond to everyone else.

    Why is it people always lose interest in me? Is it because I'm quite independent (people know I still like to socialise). Is it because I'm boring? What could the issue be?

    It's no coincidence it's happened at every different level of education

    TL;DR People initially are very interested in me, they then lose interest and if anything look down at me. Why? Got any advice?
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    If you're a nice guy, seems like you're the first to be taken for granted. It's unfair, but they're the easiest to forget about and boss around.

    Keep being you - they're obvs not worth your time if they don't value you. Someone will one day
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    Well unfortunately loads of people think snakes are more fun an exciting to be around than nice people.

    The popular girls in my secondary school were the biggest snakes around.
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    (Original post by queenofswords)
    Well unfortunately loads of people think snakes are more fun an exciting to be around than nice people.

    The popular girls in my secondary school were the biggest snakes around.
    That's not true, I'm nice and I'm really lovable :sad:
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    (Original post by FakeNewsEditor)
    That's not true, I'm nice and I'm really lovable :sad:
    That's good to hear. Nice people deserve to be lovable/ popular. But there are a lot of popular snakes out there.
 
 
 
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