Hey guys
I'm starting uni in september (not sure which I want to go to yet) but Im a bit confused about a couple things
the two unis that im looking at are the same two unis as him (by chance). Originally he wanted to go to a different one but changed his mind etc to one that I'm looking at because it has a better course
It's a campus uni and we're doing different courses
I don't want to base my university choice, however, on whether my boyfriend was at the same university as me or not
we don't see each other too often as respect each other's space etc. I like to have independence and to keep our friends etc more or less separate because I like having my own life and identity.
I'm worried that going to the same university would cause me to feel like I can't spread my wings properly, or that I'll feel suffocated or my space invaded.Yet on the other hand I know I definitely won't be seeing him every day, it'd save money on travel, and also we could get jobs at the weekend/weekday contrary to if we were in LDR and that might be an issue
Im worried about if we broke up, but then again its no different really to if you found someone to date at uni
just want to hear you guys's opinion on this or advice to settle my nerves/ make things work
thankyou<3