Just not ment to be?

Well i like this guy i talk to that i know through one of my mates for quite a while and a lot of my mates say he likes me from the way he is with me, i was maby going to be meeting him yesterday but lots changed and it never happened.. Basically im fed up waiting around for something that might not happen and turning going out with other guys incase he actually does like me and i've messed it up by saying yes.

I know im only 15 and everything but its really annoying me now, also im not the type of person to admit to someone that i like them unless they tell me...

Should i just move on and try and forget about him or what :s-smilie:

Reply 1

arpeggio

As you said, you're only 15 (sorry I know that must get annoying to hear) so there's no rush and it's not as if you're wasting time by waiting around. Why didn't you meet up with him yesterday? If this is someone you really like, it'll be worth persevering, and tell him how you feel (chances are he feels the same). You might regret it if you don't do anything about it.

Reply 2

DodgyTrousers

Just be sure you aren't sitting there waiting for him to make all the moves. Remember that what you term as subtle flirting is probably 100% invisible to the average man. Be obvious, so what if he turns you down? It's not like you'll be any worse off than you are now.

I often see posts up here from girls being frustrated that a man didn't make a move on them, when it's likely he had no idea they were interested and was simply respecting their space.