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bit generic like but.... does he like me?!

Right so last year i started a new office job and instantly fancied this dude, lets call him Carl, he is 4 years older than me. I was quite sure he felt the same way about me aswell at every excuse possible he would touch me or brush into me or even walk directly into me and he like even offered to make my mum a birthday card for me and run into town to get her a prezzie as i was away all week and wouldent get chance!.

I soon discovered he had a gf (isnt it always the way?!?!) and i was well gutted!!! Then as time went by my feelings got well stronger and a the teenage crush obsessive side of me came out, he blatently knew i fancied him even though i tried to hide it. I then started to date one of the guys in my work and mine and Carls relationship went mega downhill, he turned into a PRICK and was always arguing with me and excluding me from things but it was like really rocky!!!!!

Anyhow we recently met up for the first time in like 6 months and got on mega well, it was really nice. His girlfreind is like on a 6 month backpacking stint around Asia and is back soon so i said well are you all exited about seeing her again then?! He replied with no, all she talks about is babies, i dont wanna settle down and im kind of in my own routine now!!! this sounds well gay but we had like really good strong eye contact when we were chatting and well it felt weird, he invited me to loads of stuff and we both caught up on each other lives. He even rang me when i got back to check i got home ok!

Ok so well does he like me or am i just adding up 2 and 2 and getting 5?!

why would he tell me about his relationship problems when we aint even that close?!

does he like me?!

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Reply 1

Yeah, he does.

Well... I say he likes you... what I should really say is that he would quite happily shag you behind his girlfriend's back.

But he's quite clearly not going to ditch his girlfriend (who sounds as though she has long-term plans for their relationship) just so that he can have a long-term thing with you. He would probably have sex with you though and not let his gf know about it.

He therefore sounds like a bit of a weapon.

And the fact that you'd presumably be quite happy to get with him despite his girlfriend makes me think you're probably a bit of a slapper.

So you're perfect for one another...

Congratulations! :smile:

Reply 2

Whooa **** nooo!
you got me alll wrong!

I would never do anything i mean he is like meggga fit but like euugh thats just wrong!!!!

womanhood and all that kapow i wouldnt go there!

Reply 3

So why does it matter if he likes you?

Reply 4

Well like i would just like to get it clear in my head wether i have like been reading the signs right!!!!!

Reply 5

Ok, well I am certain he is interested. There ya go!

Reply 6

At rest? Really? Huh... interesting. :smile:

Reply 7

haha
well in all honesty im now even more confused, i may keep my distance!

Thing is though, he really aint the "sleep around" kind of guy.