Would you date someone who was suicidal?

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As the title asks.

I am not suicidal by the way, I am just curious on what people thought about this.
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No, they need to sort themselves out before I do, I'd help out though.
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Nope, I even don't like the danger people.
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It's a slightly strange question, tbh. 'Being suicidal' isn't going to present in isolation. It's not like 'would you date someone with size 9 feet'. It's going to be much more complicated than that, and it would depend on the circumstances as to whether or not I would - what else is going on, how has the 'suicidal' come about..etc etc.
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Nope.
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"How can I love someone when they don't love themselves?"
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No because I'd be worried about hurting them and sending them over the edge; I'd be their friend though
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(Original post by Darren A)
As the title asks.

I am not suicidal by the way, I am just curious on what people thought about this.
Normally, nobody will tell you that they are suicidal unless they really trust you. So you wouldn't even know you're dating a suicidal person, until much later.
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(Original post by Ciel.)
Normally, nobody will tell you that they are suicidal unless they really trust you. So you wouldn't even know you're dating a suicidal person, until much later.
If they said they were though, would you get into a relationship with them?
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I wouldn't enter a relationship with someone who is suicidal, they need to focus on sorting themselves out before pursuing a relationship. If I was however already in a relationship with someone, then they became suicidal, I'd do whatever I can to support them.
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No. My abusive ex kept threatening to kill himself when I tried to leave him.
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(Original post by Darren A)
If they said they were though, would you get into a relationship with them?
Nah, I couldn't have the blood on my hands just in case they did commit suicide I'd feel it were my fault, or could I have done something, etc
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You'd have to be suicidal to date me. I'm packing a serious choking hazard down there.
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(Original post by Reality Check)
It's a slightly strange question, tbh. 'Being suicidal' isn't going to present in isolation. It's not like 'would you date someone with size 9 feet'. It's going to be much more complicated than that, and it would depend on the circumstances as to whether or not I would - what else is going on, how has the 'suicidal' come about..etc etc.
I like your post. and you.
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(Original post by WoodyMKC)
You'd have to be suicidal to date me. I'm packing a serious choking hazard down there.
lool too funny
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Yessss, It is a dream for me to date one, give them hope and save their life!!

I'd just love to tell them that everything will be okay
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Yeah I would.
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No. My abusive ex kept threatening to kill himself when I tried to leave him.
You're assuming that all suicidal people are going to manipulative like that?
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Too vague of a question, does not account for the circumstance under which they are suicidal.

In general, however, yes. To have a shoulder to lean on, for a depressed person, can be magical.
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(Original post by CTLevers)
I wouldn't enter a relationship with someone who is suicidal, they need to focus on sorting themselves out before pursuing a relationship. If I was however already in a relationship with someone, then they became suicidal, I'd do whatever I can to support them.
What if it's due to an underlying problem that may not be so easily resolved?
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