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Revenge is sweet...

My bfrnd and I broke up, he kissed another girl. On saturday night, he told me he slept with her. Then we started to sleep with each other. He introduced himself as my boyfriend to my flat mates then said he didn't mean it! Friday night, i went back to his we fought so much then he told me that this girl he cheated on me which broke up with her bfrnd, and he kissed her.
Then he said he hasnt gone with anyone cos he still likes me blah blah. Then we went to bed and in the morning, we had sex and after wards he chucked me out his room saying that he cant still sleep with me, its not making him happy and it will hurt me in the long run. And he said he never wants to see me again.
I went back home crying my eyes out, i then went on his facebook page and he was listed in a relationship. So i text him saying i cant believe u have a gfrnd and yet u were sleepign with me, makes me feel wonderful. He text back saying 'i don't' then i said well for hersake i hope she doesnt find out. then he replied back saying...'i dont know wat u want cos u were so unsure and i never actually told me. goodbye' then i replied back saying i want the truth.
I checked this girl who he cheated on me facebook, and she is listed in a relationship with her bfrnd. But why did he tell me she broke up with him?! I really want to tell this guy that my ex slept with her, i feel he has the right to know! am i wrong, if i do tell him?


sorry if this is really long!
Reply 1
I can't be the only one who is really confused after reading that? :s-smilie:
Reply 2
Cortez
I can't be the only one who is really confused after reading that? :s-smilie:


No, you are not alone in that feeling of confusion.
Reply 3
I am SO confused :s-smilie:
Reply 4
yeah.. can you kinda type it out again fully?
Reply 5
I sort of understand. No, I dont think you should tell her ex, as their relationship not really your business. Even if he does have the right to know, it shouldn't be from you (I'm assuming you dont know the guy).
Tell him! You're being used as a doormat by your ex and he deserves a comedown.
Reply 7
You just massacred several TSR members with your inability to form coherent sentences in normal language.
You kind of confused me. But I think I get you. If I were you, I'd tell the guy but do no more. Just move on and forget about the whole ordeal.
Basically, you're a complete fool, a bit of a bitch and a walkover, all rolled into one. Well done.
Reply 10
I reckon he might have been lying about this girl breaking up with her bf and sleeping with him.
Um. I'm confused. My head hurts from reading that too...
Cortez
I can't be the only one who is really confused after reading that? :s-smilie:


nope it makes no bloody sense whatsoever and has nothing in there about revenge
Reply 13
right i think you are little a little thick... "he slept with someone else therefore i slept with him and then in the morning he told me he cheated on me" UH DURR!
Also when I split up with someone, I'm sure updating my facebook relationship status isn't the first thing that's on my mind...


I think I understood THAT bit...
winniethepooh88
My bfrnd and I broke up, he kissed another girl. On saturday night, he told me he slept with her. Then we started to sleep with each other. He introduced himself as my boyfriend to my flat mates then said he didn't mean it! Friday night, i went back to his we fought so much then he told me that this girl he cheated on me which broke up with her bfrnd, and he kissed her.
Then he said he hasnt gone with anyone cos he still likes me blah blah. Then we went to bed and in the morning, we had sex and after wards he chucked me out his room saying that he cant still sleep with me, its not making him happy and it will hurt me in the long run. And he said he never wants to see me again.
I went back home crying my eyes out, i then went on his facebook page and he was listed in a relationship. So i text him saying i cant believe u have a gfrnd and yet u were sleepign with me, makes me feel wonderful. He text back saying 'i don't' then i said well for hersake i hope she doesnt find out. then he replied back saying...'i dont know wat u want cos u were so unsure and i never actually told me. goodbye' then i replied back saying i want the truth.
I checked this girl who he cheated on me facebook, and she is listed in a relationship with her bfrnd. But why did he tell me she broke up with him?! I really want to tell this guy that my ex slept with her, i feel he has the right to know! am i wrong, if i do tell him?


sorry if this is really long!

What are you, 12? Because judging by how appallingly it's written and your actions (he actually was telling you he was sleeping with someone else but you kept having sex with him anyway) I certainly get that impression!
I say stay out of it. Why make this girls boyfriend feel as low as you do? Yes it will annoy the girl that your boyfriend slept with, but why involve her boyfriend? I say let him find out for himself.
You had ought to stay out of it,the more you get involved, the more you're going to get emotionally involved with your ex and since he's been such a **** to you I suggest leaving it here and allowing all ties to be cut so you can get over him and move on to someone who wont kiss other girls just because they are upset about breaking up with their boyfriends.