I'm just wondering, would you go out with someone who was noticibly overweight? I'm not sure what standard I should use, since everyone pretty much has their own definition of "skinny and fat."
Well I was overweight when I met my boyfriend and he's some slim guy who plays sports and likes to go the gym a lot. It was only a year and a half in to our relationship that I decided to lose weight so it can't have put him off too much. He prefers me a bit slimmer because he says I look nicer, more healthy and I seem happier. He said he wouldn't want me to be skinny though.
I know like 8 people that have. Because they all went out with me.
I dont know about overweight. I think I am. I'm 5"4 and like 54 kilos. So hmmpgh. But I think it depends WHERE your weight is.
If its evenly distributed on his body- then I dont give, but if he has particularly skinny arms, and legs, and a beer belly maybe not. Kinda gives me the heebie jeebies.
I dont care about weight, proportions key. But then theres a limit to pushing proportions, like yeah. I wouldnt mind someone with maybe 3 even tummy rolls. And a bit of squishyness all around
But my ex was like tall and skinny so
I DONT KNOW. But if your so worried about weight, it kinda makes people get annoyed, like bringing more attention to it then needed. (Personal experience)
I'm pretty sure you know that you're not overweight. Imagine how an actual overweight person would feel if they read this?
okay I lied I'm 55.5 kilos. Everyone has a different interpretation of overweight, and by that health chart thing in school, if you calculate im in the area close to normal but like a cm into the overweight part. With most of my friends, easily underweight, I consider myself overweight & in need of some desperate shaping up. Other people dont, thats why i said I think i'm overweight. Not. I am overweight end of story.