I recently 'broke-up' with somebody who was by all means, my world. She ticked all the boxes. She was kind, caring, attractive and all around nearly perfect. I was sad to have to let her go, but she didn't want to feel tied down to
one person, especially as she is just settling down in a new place (uni).
She spent a long time trying to decide what she wanted, her heart told her one thing while her head told her another, I gave her that time and it messed me up big time over her, now I feel betrayed by this.
While I was VERY upset about it, I finally came to accept that we weren't going any further for the time being, however she insisted that somewhere down the line we could maybe continue, however as much as I liked her, I wasn't going to wait for someone and base what I do around that.
While we were 'together' we hardly ever argued. However, since she suddenly decided to cut me off because she couldn't make her mind up, she was very blunt with me, however what she doesn't know is I am aware that she said she was doing this so she wouldn't take me back. She was always honest with me.
I was obviously upset, I wanted answers and she couldn't really provide them so I told her she needed to leave me alone to get over her.
Since then, she has been horrible, even though not direct, to me. I saw her on a jog and she looked visibly shocked to see me and stopped what she was doing and stared at me, two weeks ago. Recently (last week or so) i've seen her in a shop, which we both looked away from one another. She was in my uni halls the other day for pre-drinks and didn't bother to speak to me, left her alcohol and had to come back to get it the next day.
She has blocked me on all social media since I told her to leave me alone, which I find strange seeing as she instigated the break-up. She unblocked me to get her alcohol as I was the only one in the flat, as soon as I gave it to her all I got was a sarcastic thanks from her and she walked away.
I messaged her after this, saying I was over her and she replied with a 'good for you' and proceeded to block me again.
Why is she acting like this considering this is what she wanted?
This girl was my best friend as well as my lover, it's a pretty big gap we've left in each others lives. We are both in our first year at uni and I do agree with her, we do need to go and find who we are and have our freedom, we're both 20.
What I don't understand is why shes being such a
with me? Any suggestions as to why would be much appreciated.
I am over her now, I just don't understand the need to act that way. I do miss having her there, but life is life.