he doesnt seem to want sex

ive been with my boyfriend for about four months now and weve recently started saying 'i love you'.were together at least 5 days a week,and sleep together twice a week but we still havnt had sex yet, its always foreplay and only ever him doing it to me, whenever i try and instigate anything else he doesnt seem interested.at first i was flattered that he was content just watching me climax but now im wondering why he doesnt seem to want me to please him?! i am a virgin and hes told me he has slept with 2 girls but he was drunk both times.any help much appreciated thanks!!

Reply 1

kyletms

doctor kyle says: its a mild case of penis-fright. jack him off twice a week for a month - if the problem persists we may have to arrange an operation...

Reply 2

Rhys.

Talk about it with him; only he knows what's going on.

Reply 3

Profesh

Rhys.

Talk about it with him; only he knows what's going on.

Yup.

Reply 4

Dadeyemi

maybe hes actually gay?

Reply 5

Dadeyemi

maybe he's sleeping with someone else and feels guilty?

Reply 6

foss

maybe he's worried that he's not good enough or something, or that he's not big enough??

Reply 7

.AJ.

maybe you remind him of his mom?

Reply 8

herecomestrouble

probably just scared about doing it sober? talk to him though ;yes;

Reply 9

Robob

Old proverb say, to make ugly baby make man drunked

Reply 10

squeak

.AJ.

maybe you remind him of his mom?

if that was the case do you reckon he would make her come so much :/

But seriously OP, I would talk to him. Communication is the keeey!

Reply 11

silverbolt

communication is what you need here OP, talk to him about it. he may just want to wait that little longer

Reply 12

Bexxxx

If hes only ever been intimate wth girls when hes ben drunk, he may just be a little scared doing it with someone he actually really likes! Just talk to him about it. :smile:

Reply 13

ßlαcksωαn

a) he has herpes and doesnt wanna give it to you
b) he's cheating and getting some elsewhere
c) he doesnt find you sexually attractive
d) he's nervous/shy whatever
e) he's found god.

Reply 14

Nalced

As School prefect and head officer of shag patrols.

I deeply recommend that you, in bed. Get close to him, kiss him. Sit on his lap, you know. So that your chest is at his eye level- and rub together, real hard and passionate, show him that you want him. GET HIM THINKING

Or just talk to him and just share your personal thoughts, then do the above.

Reply 15

Music_Enthusiast

Hes probably a virgin. He says he slept with "two girls when drunk" so he can claim he has done it, but can't remember very much.

Reply 16

simeon125

maybe hes thinking about his endowment, but if i seriously think otherwise as if hes mentioned 2 previous girls drunk and keeps seeming "unresposive lets say" than it =most likely equals 0 (esp if he told you this at v.beginning and as the other user above suggests can't remember v.much)