Battling with temptation to visit an escort

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Hey, this is a genuine post and as the title says, I am battling with temptation to visit an escort to help with feelings of sexual frustration.

I have visited an escort once before in my home town but did not had intercourse, only massage. However, I am now at University in my first year, see attractive girls with good looking guys all the time, and often hear other students going at it and I feel left out.

I am in a battle as I know that if I saw an escort, I'd feel ashamed and guilty, and most likely regret it, but the feelings I am trying to deal with feel dreadful
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I know it's an awkward subject so I understand not many people will have anything to say, but I believe it is something that affects mostly guys quite frequenlty, so I would appreciate it if you would talk should have anything to contribute
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I would say go for it. Your only young once. Just be careful and enjoy.


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(Original post by EmilyLouiseR)
I would say go for it. Your only young once. Just be careful and enjoy.


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That wasn't what I was hoping to hear, but thanks for your input
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What is it you think you will get out of doing so?
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.. because obviously there are lots of reasons not to do it.
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Hey, this is a genuine post and as the title says, I am battling with temptation to visit an escort to help with feelings of sexual frustration.

I have visited an escort once before in my home town but did not had intercourse, only massage. However, I am now at University in my first year, see attractive girls with good looking guys all the time, and often hear other students going at it and I feel left out.

I am in a battle as I know that if I saw an escort, I'd feel ashamed and guilty, and most likely regret it, but the feelings I am trying to deal with feel dreadful
You'd be surprised how many guys visit an escort at least once in their lives, we don't have it half as easy as women when it comes to getting into relationships (whether long term or a ons). Due to the stigma almost all will hide the fact that they've visited one.

Do as your heart (or d!ck) wishes and just don't tell anyone. Use protection and have a good shower straight after.
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There are indeed plenty of men who've visited escorts, but what they've sought to get out of the experience varies and so has their reaction to having done so.
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Is it to lose your vaginity or just to releive sexual tension? If former I would wait if latter the yes but stay safe.
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Is it to lose your vaginity or just to releive sexual tension? If former I would wait if latter the yes but stay safe.
No I've lost my virginity to a girlfriend in the past, it's just been nearly 8 months and I don't have the confidence to meet someone
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No I've lost my virginity to a girlfriend in the past, it's just been nearly 8 months and I don't have the confidence to meet someone
One word of advice, it can be addicting, once you start you cannot stop. So avoid it and find a girlfriend, better to drown your girl in gifts than blow it on escorts.
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One word of advice, it can be addicting, once you start you cannot stop. So avoid it and find a girlfriend, better to drown your girl in gifts than blow it on escorts.
Personally I don't find it addictive, although I do frequently hear it is addictive for a lot of men.
What would happen with me is I'd feel ashamed, guilty, unable to look people in the eye and get panic attacks for a while. It's not worth it for a moment of satisfaction, but that doesn't help with my compulsiveness
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Amongst the things that mean it's not for me is the thought 'they would not be here if I were not paying' is deeply unsexy, and if, despite that, I were to have a good time, it wouldn't happen again unless I paid again.

You'll be far better off spending (a fraction of) the money on a Fleshlight.
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Amongst the things that mean it's not for me is the thought 'they would not be here if I were not paying' is deeply unsexy, and if, despite that, I were to have a good time, it wouldn't happen again unless I paid again.

You'll be far better off spending (a fraction of) the money on a Fleshlight.
Do you have any recommendations for a decent fleshlight, and advice for maintenance?
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A plain interior one, rather than one of the fancier bumpier types - quieter and more realistic, as well as easier to clean. Speaking of which

Wash and let dry before putting the insert back, wash and let dry...

Do that and it will last for many years.
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Personally wouldn't recommend it. Health risks aside, it's not something a future partner will want to know about and I don't think you'll end up being proud of it either.

Sexual frustration is a :innocent::innocent::innocent::innocent::innocent:, but don't let it control your life. Focus on other things, and when the time is right...you'll get some.
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I visited prostitutes/massage parlours for a while and while it felt exciting and fun and I got great orgasms, it also left me feeling down and depressed afterwards.

Love plays a part in sex too.
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Just do it #yolo
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Just do it #yolo
Nah, I have not and I won't
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