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I confessed to five women, one of them was my best friend and they all rejected me. Why? Am I that ugly or boring? Will I ever have luck with women?
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I confessed to five women, one of them was my best friend and they all rejected me. Why? Am I that ugly or boring? Will I ever have luck with women?
It's hardly a confession if you do it 5 times in a short time period.
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Hi Henry da 8th
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No idea till we see a pic
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It's hardly a confession if you do it 5 times in a short time period.
I thought women liked me?
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Confessed what?
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Confessed what?
That I found them pretty and liked them.
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Doing that to your best friend doesn't usually go down well tbh...

Did you ever flirt with them beforehand?
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That I found them pretty and liked them.
Hmmm. Maybe your mind isn't in the right place if you're referring to this as confession.

Call me Sir Thomas More, but "confession" to me implies some quantum of sin - or at the very least a lack of conviction.

More positive attitude I think is what is needed.
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Doing that to your best friend doesn't usually go down well tbh...

Did you ever flirt with them beforehand?
I try but I always end up annoying them so I try to be nice and compliment them
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Hmmm. Maybe your mind isn't in the right place if you're referring to this as confession.

Call me Sir Thomas More, but "confession" to me implies some quantum of sin - or at the very least a lack of conviction.

More positive attitude I think is what is needed.
What should I do then? All my friends have a girl and I feel inferior now
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I thought women liked me?
Well no offence but if you ask out a lot of people it seems more like than desperation rather than genuine interest.
But anyway just because you're friends with them doesn't mean that they'll want to date you, they could different reasons. Maybe they're not interested in relationships, maybe they were/are currently interested in someone else etc.

I find a lot of girls at my school hot but I probably wouldn't date them because there is more to a relationship than someone being good looking. Just stick to having friends for now and see overtime if you can find someone that you're interested in. Don't straight away ask them out, try to get to know them well, be your true self and nothing less or more. If they don't like you for you then they're not the right person for you.

*There's no need to rush, enjoy yourself!*
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You can get rejected over 100 times before being accepted.

Keep on trying and don't give up
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(Original post by Mercedesthebest)
I confessed to five women, one of them was my best friend and they all rejected me. Why? Am I that ugly or boring? Will I ever have luck with women?
Do they know each other? Non of them would appreciate the fact that you confessed to other women.
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Do they know each other? Non of them would appreciate the fact that you confessed to other women.
They are the prettiest girls on the campus so yes I guess.
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What should I do then? All my friends have a girl and I feel inferior now
You might have (to paraphrase Woody from Toy Story) poisoned the waterhole.

You shouldn't have gone and hit up 5 girls in a row. Now anyone you go to is going to think that (a) you're desperate and (b) they are at least 6th on your bucket list.

You are going to have to switch from a direct approach to guile and subterfuge. You may have to pretend to befriend a girl, and be her buddy for a while. Then when her guard is down, say that you're going to (event xyz) and tell her to come along too. Then it becomes a defacto date, and you can do your confessional from there. It runs a friendzone risk, but you don't have many good options.
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It's over, accept the ugly life.
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You might have (to paraphrase Woody from Toy Story) poisoned the waterhole.

You shouldn't have gone and hit up 5 girls in a row. Now anyone you go to is going to think that (a) you're desperate and (b) they are at least 6th on your bucket list.

You are going to have to switch from a direct approach to guile and subterfuge. You may have to pretend to befriend a girl, and be her buddy for a while. Then when her guard is down, say that you're going to (event xyz) and tell her to come along too. Then it becomes a defacto date, and you can do your confessional from there. It runs a friendzone risk, but you don't have many good options.
Hmm, it must suck to be me I must secretly be the laughing stock of all my friends and girls I guess but I will give this a go.
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It's over, accept the ugly life.
That's sad, I am not even bad looking
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Hmm, it must suck to be me I must secretly be the laughing stock of all my friends and girls I guess but I will give this a go.
Yes, you are, but that's part of the whole thing. You got to be able to take a kicking from time to time and get back up. It builds character.
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