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I'm 23 she's 35, is it wrong?

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Im in a similar situation im 21 and she is 28. Im a student trainee and she has graduated and currently doing specialist training as a cardiologist.
Original post by TheGoodPharaoh
Yeah she's just one of them women y'know, get candles out, some lotion and massage her elbows while she sings lullaby's to you


Mmm...now you're onto something...just when I was about to go bed you put naughty thoughts in my head


on a level don't she look like Hyacinth Bucket from Keeping Up Appearances though?

Original post by Anonymous
I believe so, we share the same interests and world view.

It has took us a while to understand and accept the age gap between us and it will take a while to think nothing of it, but she's so worth it.
Before she wouldn't even consider anyone under 30 because it's too young to her, but now we just can't leave each other alone.

And before we became involved with each other I thought she was 32 which I didn't think was so bad, but these extra years making her mid 30s is putting doubt in my mind. She has aged really well and you'd think she's 27-30ish.
What's bothering me is when she's 40 I'll only be 28.
We haven't told anyone about each other yet because we don't want to go telling people if this is only a temporary fling. I do want to settle with her but I need to believe that it can really work.


Ye and you know women age like milk as well lol. It's not AS bad when it's the opposite way round because men tend to look better as they age (up to a point).

When she's 50 you'l be 38 lol. And when she's dead you'l probably be too old to get another girlfriend. You'l also have no children to keep you company since she doesn't want any. So you'l probably die alone, heartbroken and miserable.

I would just keep it as a fling and get someone your own age.
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Original post by 0to100
Mmm...now you're onto something...just when I was about to go bed you put naughty thoughts in my head


on a level don't she look like Hyacinth Bucket from Keeping Up Appearances though?



Lmao she does, two fitties for the price of one
Original post by ChickenMadness
Thats hot.

As long as she's actually good looking :tong:


Wouldn't get into a serious relationship with one personally though. She'l be dead long before you and if you want kids in the future they'l probably come out retarded. Or it will just be really hard to concieve.


:colonhash:

She's a temptress. Nothing like any girl my own age, it's exciting tbh.

You raise some good points to think about, cheers.
Original post by TheGoodPharaoh
Lmao she does, two fitties for the price of one


price? Pfft not paying for that.
Original post by moneymania999
Im in a similar situation im 21 and she is 28. Im a student trainee and she has graduated and currently doing specialist training as a cardiologist.


Are you together?

The woman I'm seeing is a manager at an accountancy firm and I only graduated 2 years ago so I know how it is.
Original post by 0to100
price? Pfft not paying for that.


You're right, she's priceless
Original post by Anonymous
Are you together?

The woman I'm seeing is a manager at an accountancy firm and I only graduated 2 years ago so I know how it is.


Nope not yet, but hopefully in the coming week or so
Original post by ChickenMadness
Ye and you know women age like milk as well lol. It's not AS bad when it's the opposite way round because men tend to look better as they age (up to a point).

When she's 50 you'l be 38 lol. And when she's dead you'l probably be too old to get another girlfriend. You'l also have no children to keep you company since she doesn't want any. So you'l probably die alone, heartbroken and miserable.

I would just keep it as a fling and get someone you're own age.


That's what bothers me. when she's 50+ and a crippled coffin dodger I'll be so much younger. We have so much chemistry but the timing is wrong. The fact that she was born in 1982 makes me feel like we're worlds apart. She's had 12 more years of life than me and where have they all gone? Idk what the future holds for her and I but I enjoy being involved with her
Original post by moneymania999
Nope not yet, but hopefully in the coming week or so


Nice hope it works out!
Yes. You shouldn't date anyone younger than The Queen of Pop MADONNA.
Original post by Little Toy Gun
Yes. You shouldn't date anyone younger than The Queen of Pop MADONNA.


Madonna is nightmarish. The only hot 50+ I know of is Elizabeth Hurley. She's better looking than most girls in their 20s tbh.
You gotta be happy with what you can get I suppose.
Original post by Anonymous
That's what bothers me. when she's 50+ and a crippled coffin dodger I'll be so much younger. We have so much chemistry but the timing is wrong. The fact that she was born in 1982 makes me feel like we're worlds apart. She's had 12 more years of life than me and where have they all gone? Idk what the future holds for her and I but I enjoy being involved with her


ye she literally grew up without internet lol.
Original post by Nulliverse
You gotta be happy with what you can get I suppose.


It isn't about who I can or can't get.

I've had my time at uni and girls my own age bore me to death. This woman is extrememly successful, exquisite, and I'm lucky to even be involved with her.
Original post by Anonymous
It isn't about who I can or can't get.

I've had my time at uni and girls my own age bore me to death. This woman is extrememly successful, exquisite, and I'm lucky to even be involved with her.


Reminds me of Finch and Stifler's mom. :biggrin:
Original post by Anonymous
Madonna is nightmarish. The only hot 50+ I know of is Elizabeth Hurley. She's better looking than most girls in their 20s tbh.


Reply 58
Not wrong, have at it. Life is for living.
Reply 59
Original post by Anonymous
Interesting to hear.

I'm asking because we haven't told anyone we know that we are seeing each other and I want advice and to see how I will or will not be judged. It's good to hear some real cases and how things do or don't work out so thahks for that.


Ah glad to have helped.

As for whether you'll be judged, I'm pretty sure you will get mixed responses, but it shouldn't matter as long as you are happy between you!

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